Diogo Jota leaves three children after death and the psychologist warns: “The sudden absence destroys”

The Portuguese player Diogo Jota The star died on Thursday 3, next to his brother André Silva, In the city of Zamora, in the north of Spain. The two had a car accident on the A-52 motorway when they tried to overcome a vehicle. The car’s rubber broke out, making them throw off the track. The car caught fire, killing them both on the spot. Diogo He leaves three young children – two boys and a little girl – and a wife with whom she got married on June 22nd.

In conversation with the Portal Márcia Piovesanthe clinical psychologist Luti ChristoporusHe explained how early loss can affect family development, in particular the growth of such small children.

How will the children be?

According to the professional, the heirs tend to have different negative psychological effects for the loss of PAI. “The children, who already lived with a paternal figure present, can face profound feelings of insecurity, fear and abandonment, even without fully understanding what happened. The sudden absence destroys the sense of continuity and protection, interfering with emotional development, emotional ties and construction of identity”, “” “ he said.

In addition to the emotional factors, paternal loss can also cause physical effects which, later, harmful to the mental health of the minor: “School routine, social relationships and sleep and food models often change. There are children who internalize pain becoming more introspective, others can outsource with irritability or anxiety explosions. Any behavior, it is a form of mourning manifestation and should not be silenced or ignored.”

How to take care of the child

Luti Indicates that the legal guardian for small pay attention to the signs they can give during growth: “To help these children cross this moment, it is essential to preserve rituals and routines as a stability point, encourage emotional contact with other trusted adults, offer safe space to express their emotions and indicate specialized psychological support when there are complicated mourning signs, such as prolonged insulation, marked depressive symptoms or behavioral deregulation.”

And the wife?

Rute Cardoso Married to Diogo On June 22, that is 11 days before death. The psychologist explains that the proximity to the event makes mourning even more difficult: “Immediately after a large milestone like marriage, it can generate an extraordinary emotional shock. The wife not only loses her husband, but also a life just started, full of dreams, plans and marital identity. Marriage establishes expectations with the future and the following death generates an emotional abyss that crosses the common Mourning, adding traumatic dimensions.”

At the beginning, it could be that Ruth Erroneously felt by the tragedy: “In this situation, it is common to emerge intense forms of suffering, such as disbelief and a sense of injustice in the face of unexpected losses, counterproductive fault for not having done more, anger and existential questions about the meaning of life and love, as well as a profound emotional disorganization in the face of sudden breakage and bonds.”

And this, in the end, can generate serious disorders: “The initial shock can evolve into depression, anxious sequences and trauma, especially if death is violent or sudden. Therefore, for this woman, it is essential to receive an immediate protection network, a continuous psychological support and have her time of time respected, because the emotional reconstruction does not follow the pain. The pain, however pain, however, can be dangerous for a bond, transforming the bond and transforming the bond with maintenance with maintenance And the time to transform the bond with the maintenance and time to transform the link and transform of time in which the bond and time transformer has been lost for the link and transport of time in which one is waste of a bond and the bond of transforming the bond and the bond of assistance.

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Source: Terra