The family constellation beyond your blood relations

The family constellation beyond your blood relations


Through the therapeutic approach it is possible to improve one’s work, one’s health and also the way of expressing oneself to the world; understand how

Although the name indicates only one meaning, the family constellation can concern different areas in addition to relationships with people who have your blood. And, to explain, in detail, how the therapeutic approach can help you in the areas of daily life – ranging from work to health – we invited the transpersonal and constellation therapist, Giuliana Lotumolo.




Be inserted in its various dimensions

According to the expert, the family constellation can contribute in different fields, since it is necessary to know one’s place to express oneself to the world. “To fit into its various dimensions, it is necessary, first of all, to be in your own sphere of the family system. To be the person who brings the appropriate collocation and concept. So, today, both on a professional, financial and health level, you can use a systemic look at family constellations to be able to follow paths of solutions”explains.

Understand better

“In some cases of the constellation, who arrive with the professional context of not being able to integrate, or of not being able to give back what one does for the world, a father is often missing. He who, perhaps, has not been the man of In this way he was excluded because he was not the ideal partner. Instead, he will always be the father.”exemplifies Lotumolo.

“And, when we can make everyone there belong, it is possible to fill our hearts. And then, with everyone’s heart full, and in their place, we can practice giving and taking, and this has a lot to do what to do with the professional adult, who gives the world everything he has in his ability to serve and receives it in return”he concludes.

What is the family constellation?

The definition of family constellation is a therapeutic approach that involves energy fields. “If we were to translate literally from German, the word would be positioning. In short, it is the opportunity for us, as energetic beings, to position ourselves within the system, with all the potential, in our place. Of course, looking at all that He came first so that we can rediscover the flow of life that began long ago.”underlines the expert.

How did this happen?

To understand it better, we must first know how it came about. “The great creator, Bert Hellinger, drew from many sources, from psychodrama, through transgenerational analysis, to family therapy. Through these studies, he saw that there are three laws that move any relationship and positioning in life. He called them ‘Law of belonging‘, ‘Law of Hierarchy‘ AND ‘Law of balance between taking and receiving‘”details.

When these laws are in order, we are in our place and get the flow of life. “We all have the ability to develop and give something to the world, like a skill. And so we come to our place. However, if we cannot do it, it is because something is tangled, some law has not been hindered. case of a field of family constellations, it is possible to reverse this situation”he concludes.

Source: Terra

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