In an interview with Caras Brasil, the psychologist Letícia de Oliveira also stresses that the first year of the couple after the arrival of a child is many tests
The actress Fernanda Paes Leme (41) announced, last Wednesday 29, the separation of Victor Sampaio (32), through a long text published on social networks. He said that “there was not an external factor” and that the decision was not “taken in the heat at some point”. Together from 2021, the two are parents of PillarNine months. In an interview with Caras Brasil, the psychologist Letícia de Oliveira Comments on the case: “Common”.
The famous also stated that “living in a relationship that had become a friendship relationship was not good” for her or for the couple’s daughter. And he still complained about the separation, but he assured that it happened without fighting. “It is the sadness for something that broke up. But there was no revolt, fights, none of this,”, Has highlighted.
Victor also used his social networks to talk about the end after four years of union. “We crossed many difficulties in the personal and professional areas that we would never have imagined that we would cross. But we have always been the other to help us overcome all the difficulties”, He wrote.
Pilar’s father also said that the decision had been made in December, but months earlier they already knew they would no longer continue in pairs. At the beginning of this year, they made a farewell journey to Fernando De Noronha together. “We never ignored, we cursed, we raise the voice against each other and therefore we decided to separate the same way we started !! with a lot of love and respect with a gold key”, strengthened.
The psychologist Letícia de Oliveira underlines the couple’s first year of life after the arrival of a child: “Usually I tell my patients who is a year of many tests, very patience, because childhood assistance is enormous, the exhaustion is enormous, the self -esteem of women is completely compromised physically and also in relation to productivity. It cannot yet identify in the world with this new role.
“On the other hand, the couple is missing this connection, but it is a connection very under the control of the child, the basic needs – which at the beginning is a lot of sleep deprivation, introduction of food, crawling, the floor. And like the whole Tension, gets a lot around the child, the life of the couple shiver. complete.
According to the expert, everything begins to improve after the first year of life of this child. “I don’t know exactly what happened (on the case of Fernanda Paes Leme), but from what they report, it seems that there was no betrayal, there was nothing more serious. I think there was a natural removal, which It is common in almost 100 percent of these families of the first half, this first year of the child.He says.
“Know that this first year you will look at your partner with much more angry, with much more irritation. You, partner, friend, will look at your wife with, perhaps, much less admiration of women and much more admiration as a mother. And for us, elaborate everyone These changes requires time.It ends.
See Fernanda Paes Leme communicate in full
“Hi! I thought and reflected a lot on having this chat with you … I will try not to lengthen, but I didn’t even want to be superficial, so I go directly to the point: Victor and I are no longer a couple.
I soon learned to be aware of what I want for myself, but when the pillar was born, I realized that only what is good for me is not enough, I need the best for my daughter and I live in a relationship that She had become a relationship friendship was not good for me or for her.
I think people must be happy for our children, and Victor and I will go much better to take care of our life separately. Just to not create any kind of speculation … there was no external agent who would motivate this separation, it was something from us, our coexistence, our individual needs and our relationship.
It is also good. It is the sadness for something that has broken. But there was no revolt, fights, none of this … we are adults and we will transform the feeling that it gradually exists in something much more beautiful and lighter for everyone.
It is also the happiness and awareness that all the time we were together worked. It worked very well. Thanks to him our daughter came, our bond, and it is for her that we decided to be happy, far from a routine together that was becoming incompatible with our needs.
At one point it was not a decision made in the warm. It was something we fought against for a while, but we decided to be faithful to what we were really trying and matured until it arrived here.
And Pipa has a mother and father who love her unconditionally, who do everything for her and are ready to transform two houses into new places full of happiness and presence.
I have grown up not to live in appearances, to look for what I want and I need, and that’s what I will do … by the way, I have always done it.
In this I am very grateful to Victor, my partner in the greatest project of my life – who was motherhood, my friend of so many years, my daughter’s father, my partner. I would like you to be happy, I want to be happy and that our happiness reflects on our most precious good which is our kite “, The actress concluded.
Source: Terra
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