Small predator: how young owners pay

When an elderly man leaves the family, everyone understands who is to blame. Not his innocently injured wife, or even himself – the phrase “Gray in the beard, demon in the rib” is considered an acceptable excuse. She is to blame, the viper, the owner, the young bastard who coveted her money. The best thing society accepts is not blaming it right now. The most benevolent acquaintances are just waiting for the uncle to go crazy and become a normal woman again, and this person will disappear from their circle, like a bad dream. What will happen then in his silky head and his foolish heart? Uh, is there something to think and feel there? At most, she will cry until the fall, and then the next fool in love will give her a brand new iPhone and so console her.

Above all, women are angry, completely forgetting what they themselves did at twenty. Now they are sure that the girl is only motivated by their own interest, and I do not exclude that it tells them about their own experience. But, oddly enough, some girls are able to get carried away by a grown man very sincerely. It is for you that he is a predictable old wineskin, and for her – a whole mysterious world, a clever man and a knight with gray temples. Daughters who didn’t get along with their father have the chance to enter an atmosphere of warmth, care and acceptance. Someone strong no longer rejects you, takes you under their wing and spoils you. If you start again: “Give gifts? Does it ship overseas? – not necessary. He just thinks about her a lot. Teenagers are often invisible and lonely, that’s your Griffin. The cuteness of children has passed, they are still not suitable for sex, so adults are not particularly interested. When a girl matures, young men start wanting her, but it’s a rather clumsy and predatory passion. If she wants it, there will be lots of sex, but still little attention. Peer relationships are complex, with selfish boys battling girls in a fierce partnership. And it wouldn’t even occur to an adult to clash with her. He’s condescending and affectionate, maybe doesn’t respect or underestimate her, but to a girl, that feels like love. She satisfies her teenage hunger by not having a daddy, but a daddy, but with a few nuances.

But even sex with an adult man the girl likes, although his wife at the mere thought of this makes a pitiful grimace. Handsome young men who take the “flirt of a steamroller with a cow” as the ideal of courtship are rarely capable of prolonged sexual intercourse. For hours, like a sewing machine – yes, but all day hugging, lying in bed, kissing below the knee and in the crook of the elbow – somehow useless to them. And this person will be very attentive to his body, he, politely speaking, is less distracted by his own hormones. But the ladies are unlikely to believe her, they have all this lazy tenderness, they prefer to take the new singer into skillful hands.

And no, the girl will not be tormented by a conscience – and not because of the lack of one. Just one man convinced her he was free. There is a cachet, but there is emptiness in the heart, strangers with my wife for a long time, and I did not leave, because until now there was no you, my dear. Why should she care more about her marriage than him? He is an adult and he will decide everything – both for him and for her.

If he gets carried away and really makes up his mind, he will leave his wife “like an honest person”: with a toothbrush, a laptop and a credit card. For a couple, life will begin in a rented apartment, a funny attempt to imitate a family on a bare stone. A sort of life, a sort of circle of friends, hastily cobbled together with those of his acquaintances who undertake not to offend the girl opposite. His buddies are no good, they are loud, small and annoying. Therefore, from now on, she will spend evenings in the companies of “those who are finished…”. Women will whistle or peek through her, men will be nice, but it’s hard to get rid of the idea that they’ll throw a coin in front of the door: “Who will take care of the girl when she’s fed up?”

Sometimes, sometimes, when a man is strong and loving enough, happy marriages come out of such relationships, which I always appreciate very much. But being around a young, emotional being is a big test, so many break down and go back to their wives or more mature lovers. And who then thinks of what happens to the girl? She remains alone – with the stigma of young filth; with a murmur behind his back and universal condemnation, which only intensified; without protection ; again abandoned by her father. She turned out to be bad, worthless, so she was again driven out of love, confirming all teenage fears. Of course, in time, she will come to her senses, come to life, break a good person’s life, break his heart or marry him… Or even become happy, it happens. But if you care about world justice, you don’t have to worry, this viper paid it all: for a destroyed family, for someone else’s greed and someone else’s weaknesses. . She was enough hurt.