“Men think about sex all the time” and 9 other myths about male sexuality

Seriously, do you still believe it? Even if you are one of the few 20% who can reach orgasm during vaginal sex, remember that your vagina will not stretch. Even if you will have sex with a guy with a very big cock. Five times a day. Every day.

The walls of the vagina are a muscle. Most often, when we talk about a “wide” or “narrow” vagina, we are talking about muscle strength. Doing Kegel exercises will not only help you enjoy sex more. By exercising your pelvic floor muscles, you reduce the risk of incontinence in the elderly.

Remember that only a large penis is more likely to lead to injury during sex.

There are no reliable studies on this subject, so it’s time to stop repeating the well-known absurdity that they “think about sex every 7 minutes”. Women and men enjoy sex pretty much the same way.

According to a 2012 study from Ohio University, men think about sex about 19 times a day. Pretty much the same as food. And about as often as women.

On average, a male orgasm lasts 6 seconds, while a female orgasm lasts 23 seconds. It is such an injustice. Orgasm in men is usually “achieved”, with a short-term plateau. The voluptuous sensation rises quickly and descends quickly.

Men don’t need a brain to ejaculate, the spinal cord is enough for this simple process.

All men like different things: some like when you put on high heels and apply red lipstick, the second gets an erection when they see you in pajamas with teddy bears.

It’s time to stop measuring all men by the same measure.

Inside the pelvic cavity is a gland that can be stimulated by pressing on the perineum or through the anus. If you insert a finger into the anus and stimulate a small bulge on the front wall of the rectum, his penis will rise.

It’s physiology and it doesn’t mean he’s thrilled at the idea of ​​having sex with a man at all.

At the beginning of the 20th century, you could even find in stores a steel device called a prostate massager, which was sold specifically for women who wanted to please a man.

Couples who don’t watch porn are stronger. Amanda Maddox came to this conclusion by examining the behavior of men and women aged 18 to 34 in relationships. Amanda and her scientific colleagues assessed the frequency of quarrels in a couple, the level of sexual satisfaction of partners and the likelihood of infidelity. It turned out that 76.8% of men and 34.6% of women watch porn alone.

Those couples where neither partner watches porn argue far less often and are less likely to cheat.

Don’t take everything personally: he can “fall” for a thousand different reasons, because his sexuality is not simpler than yours. Maybe he’s had too much to drink or his head is full of thoughts about an upcoming renovation, a mortgage, or the next day’s fishing trip. Maybe he’s just not in the mood. Do you think this only happens to you?

Men are not animals with ready-made limbs. He can stop at any time, his control never weakening enough not to hear when you tell him to stop. Yes, he won’t be happy about that – because you wouldn’t be happy if he suddenly “withdrew”, but if you’re uncomfortable, you can say “no” at any time.

Yes, even when you’re both naked. Yes, even when it’s already in you.

Masturbation is a great opportunity to learn more about yourself, your sexuality and your pleasure. It doesn’t matter who does it, a woman or a man – masturbation is only beneficial.

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