He has faced many disappointments, but today he is a love consultant.

Ítalo Ventura is a relationship expert and offers exclusive mentoring to women looking to live in love

Until you reach the state of expert in relationships, love consultant Ítalo Ventura went through a path of disappointments in love. He was romantic, sensitive and emotional – one of those who cry at Disney movies – but he lived with the specter of rejection.

“At 15, 16 I started talking to a girl in a chat room. At that time, social networks did not exist. I used the internet because I didn’t have the courage to speak in person, for fear of being rejected. “

The chat comes, the chat goes and, finally, a date, which has turned into a courtship. Three years later, the old-fashioned romantic – who loved to send flowers, messages and wanted to live together with the girl – was dumped. And to heal the pain he decided to become a scoundrel.

But going from “dysfunctional romantic” to “inveterate seducer” was no easy task. He tried various ways to get along with women, but he didn’t get the point. “I was singing and nothing … Once I offered a beer to a girl from the club, she accepted, she toasted with me and … she left,” she says with a laugh.

The solution was to turn to the internet for advice on “getting a woman”. With the knowledge gained, Ítalo went hunting and until it worked (for a while!). There were six years of ballads, from Wednesday to Sunday.

“My friends couldn’t keep up with me. I had relationships with women that I never imagined. And after 6 years in the club without me liking it, I learned about self-confidence, to look inward. That was when I met my wife, we fell in love. Today we have two children and we have been together for 7 years “, says the commissioner.

or ‘attack’ The Brazilian, faced with what he has experienced and what he has seen, has decided to help other people to be successful in their relationships. He started writing about his experiences on a blog. “I observed that the pain of the human being is the relationship. People suffer because they do not learn to relate.”

Today, with more than six years in the profession and attending an American college specializing in relationship counseling, Ítalo serves 18,000 students in 36 different countries, as well as being a success on social media, with over 3 million followers. The consultant has created a method, exclusively for women, including celebrities and personalities, which lasts 12 weeks. And make sure it works.

“I get feedback from my students and, today, I have already formed 100 families”. According to him, the goal is to form 1,000 families. But, of course, he has the help of his wife, the therapist Flávia Ramos.

“My project has always been family and Flávia complements it. She is also a mentor for my students. And she is a woman, she has been through a lot, she enters this universe that I cannot reach because I am a man.”

And on this point he is categorical: there is no place for men. “I only mentor women because most men want to learn how to hook up with women. That’s not what connects me. I want to help people feel more confident, live a relationship and start a family.”

And for that Saint Valentine made a point of leaving advice for those who are looking for a relationship. Write it down:

1st – Start a selection process. Follow your purpose. Don’t get distracted by someone who doesn’t want the same thing you do;

2nd – Take the initiative. Start a conversation, invite outside, socialize;

3rd – Learn to relate in a current way, use social networks, technology;

“Love is an art. Art requires theory and practice. It is urgent to learn to relate and relate in a current way”, concludes Ítalo.

Source: Terra

Camila

Camila Luna is a writer at Gossipify, where she covers the latest movies and television series. With a passion for all things entertainment, Camila brings her unique perspective to her writing and offers readers an inside look at the industry. Camila is a graduate from the University of California, Los Angeles (UCLA) with a degree in English and is also a avid movie watcher.