In phase 3 couples think that love is over, but in reality it is only the beginning of a truer and more lasting relationship, according to the expert
Just like us, the Love it also transforms over time. These are what the psychologist Jed Diamond defined, in an article for the MenAlive website, as the five phases of love. The problem is that, according to the expert, most people give up during the third phase of the relationship. Find out what these phases are and how they work:
1st phase – Passion
This is the most engaging part of the relationship. “It’s wonderful because we are flooded with ‘love hormones’ like dopamine, oxytocin, serotonin, testosterone and estrogen,” says Diamond. These substances are responsible for causing a great feeling of well-being in the couple.
2nd phase – Commitment
At this time, the relationship acquires a feeling of solidity and calm. Bonds become stronger, in some cases you start to form your own family. “We feel safe, we care and appreciate each other. We stay close and protect each other. We often think that this is the final stage of love and hope that it lasts forever,” she explains.
3rd phase – Disillusionment
There comes a time when most relationships end. It can appear suddenly or little by little, but it transforms small problems into major irritations, taking away the happiness that previously took over the couple’s routine.
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Source: Terra
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