Discover how the Tower card in the Tarot can help transform a relationship crisis into an opportunity for renewal
One of the most frequent themes in a reading of Tarot cards are love. This is an indisputable fact, given the need to know what the arcana reveal about personal contact, sex and even how to deal with a relationship crisis.
All this is part of human nature and is a characteristic of our society: affection affects us.
But what happens when a relationship is going great and, suddenly, for some reason, everything goes wrong? With this being the initial reason why most seek out a tarot reader, it’s almost obvious when the card has called Tower appears: emotional neglect in plain sight.
Love is the most neglected field of life. Believe! A lack of emotional coherence leads us to project onto others what we want to see, hear or even have. As if the person were a kind of robot that should reproduce our desires.
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The meaning of the Tower
Tower it shows lightning exploding a very tall building. The destruction throws two people out, almost bringing them to the ground.
Therefore, this ancient Tarot image represents sudden changes, the strong jolt of reality and the end of complacency for the people involved in the catastrophe.
When referring to an arcana like The Tower state of relationshipsa systematic reevaluation of the emotional posture of the person in question is necessary.
Generally the mystery indicates that one of the two people involved does not pay attention to the structures of coexistence, to the solidity of intimacy and trust.
A common mistake, in fact, is to believe that the relationship, in just a few days, has already been established as an indissoluble and eternally pleasant involvement. This is not the reality of love. Love is commitment and also creativity.
How to deal with a relationship crisis
A daily challenge to gauge your mood, patience, dedication and desires is to exercise your affection with questions like:
- “Would I be that person I love so much?”
- “How can I do my best right now?”
Adopt a less authoritarian attitude and leaving aside all expectations can be a new emotional path to follow.
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- How to use Tarot in case of lost love
- The meaning of the Tarot in love
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The Tower in relational crisis
In the context of love, therefore, The Tower is a sign that devastating storms are coming, but not only ones capable of causing irreparable damage. On the contrary, this mystery suggests the need to purify your attitudes and even your opinions regarding love.
When there is nothing left but ruins – and what remains are arguments or a probable emotional distance –, it is time to “clear the ground”.
Renewing your relationship is completely possible and it has to start with you. Leave the pain and even the wounds behind It’s like cleaning your heart and openly approaching dialogue and problem solving.
The more willing you are to change your emotional behavior after so many shocks and fears, the faster you will recognize the true meaning of love in your life and how necessary it is for your well-being.
After emotional disasters, by accepting the pain and above all by healing by being willing to recognize your mistakes, you end up reinventing your way of experiencing affection with those you love so much.
How to maintain the relationship?
The power to bring your loved one back lies in the sincere recognition that the relationship falls apart when there is no firmness and balance in the way it was built.
The Tower is therefore the best sign that devastating storms are approaching to make you see better what you are doing with your heart. Listen more and talk less.
There is no need to defend yourself when all seems lost. Simply admit how much you make mistakes and show how much you truly love.
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Leone Chioda (l.chioda@personare.com.br)
– Leo Chioda is a writer and one of the leading tarot readers active in Brazil. He has a doctorate in literature from the University of São Paulo and his thesis is on poetry and alchemy. No Personare is the author of the Monthly Tarot, Direct Tarot and teacher of the Basic Tarot Course.
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