Tarot encourages reflection on how to restore passion in a relationship
The feeling of loneliness in love, even when you are next to the person you love, exists. Yes, it may seem contradictory, but the lack of harmony and emotional distance can cause serious problems in the emotional routine of a couple. And the Tarot Yes, it can help.
It usually happens like this. Suddenly (or not), the the relationship cools down and intimacy hardens. We then have what is called “strangeness” in front of the person we choose to live in our intimacy.
Thus, due to loneliness in love, many love stories end without any specific reason being specified.
Or even, for one it ends, while the other – usually the one who is negligent in nurturing the love story – is left in the void, without understanding the reason for the breakup.
Tarot can help both, as you will see below.
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The Meanings of Loneliness in Love in the Tarot
We Major Arcana of the Tarotthe love relationship is symbolized by the sixth card, Loverswhich shows us a selected scene:
- Who should win the boy’s love?
Or, from another perspective:
- Does the young man really want to marry the fair-haired girl, as a lady crowned according to the right orders?
The fundamental lesson of this image is choice. The happiness of the male figure depends on it. But, even if you make a right choice and have the ideal person by your side, you must provide assistance for the dialogue and the relationship as a whole.
Making choices requires freedom, the main ingredient for love to work.
Without it, all feelings become automatic, reshaped by the loved one in a compulsory way, who ends up abandoning the mental and sentimental posture to face the problems of a love devoid of strength.
Loneliness in love, therefore, arises from this inability to give impetus to one’s desires. Breaking down this feeling can bring rich experiences and allow for a more effective approach to dealing with feelings of abandonment.
Discover the meaning of Tarot in Love here.
How to Rekindle the Spark in Your Relationship
Tarot, as a machine for creating stories and inducing changes in our mind and spirit, allows us to put into practice new ways of dealing with emotional conflicts.
When faced with the image of the sixth arcane, it is prudent to ask oneself, as sincerely as possible:
- Is your relationship hurting you?
This question is useful to define your reaction to the problems you face with someone you love so much.
Being honest with yourself is the first step in working to reclaim your loved one’s space in your life, so imagine yourself in ten years.
Who are you with? The same person as now? Then skip another ten years. Answer mentally, as honestly as possible:
- Do you imagine maintaining the same relationship you have now?
- What will your routine and feelings be like?
Put yourself in the shoes of one of the characters and quickly think about what you would do in a situation of choice, considering your state of solitude.
- Would you remove your romantic partner from your life or change everything that is necessary in you to maintain love?
These seemingly simple questions yield the most valuable insights into the responsibility we must have towards love.
Perceiving loneliness as an emotional postureand not the result of someone else’s neglect of you, is the first step to better face yourself and be more open to love.
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Ending Loneliness in Love
Loneliness is a way of dependence on the other personas strange as it may seem. And when there is dependence, of any type and size, there is no maturity and much less sincerity in love.
There is only the need to use others to feel less alone, which serves no purpose.
This solitude is therefore an attempt to escape from what love truly asks. It kills the freedom that should exist between two people who like each other.
Acting more firmly when faced with the difficulties of living together and rethinking the way of expressing and receiving affection can be the salvation of a relationship cooled by distance.
A little less fussy and more emotional security Addressing weaknesses can be the key to a richer, longer-lasting relationship that complements the people involved in every way.
Enjoy your freedom of choice and invest more in yourself, without expecting anything from the person you love. It is by discovering one’s own company and abandoning oneself to one’s own care that loneliness ends up dissolving.
It is through these reflections that one can achieve an emotional comfort that no one in the world, not even in ten or twenty years, will be able to offer.
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Leo Nails (l.chioda@personare.com.br)
– Leo Chioda is a writer and one of the main tarot readers active in Brazil. He has a doctorate in literature from the University of São Paulo and his thesis is on poetry and alchemy. No Personare is the author of Monthly Tarot, Direct Tarot and teacher of the Basic Tarot Course.
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