The global soap opera Vale Tudo brings the theme to light. How to follow when the mother and daughter don’t agree with ethics, success and love for herself? Vale Tudo has presented recently on Globo and the soap operates a question that crosses generations in Brazil: how far would you win in life? The dilemma lived from the characters Raquel and Maria de […]
The global soap opera Vale Tudo brings the theme to light. How to follow when the mother and daughter don’t agree with ethics, success and love for herself?
Vale Tudo has presented recently on Globo and the soap operates a question that crosses generations in Brazil: how far would you win in life? The dilemma lived from the characters Raquel and Maria de Fátima, mother and daughter with opposite opinions on success and honesty, is not just a fiction. It happens, in silence or in high screams, inside many houses out there, as explained by Tatiane Paula Souza, clinical psychologist (TCC)
The central plot of Vale Tudo
According to Tatiane, Raquel believes in the strength of work, dignity, ethics. “It is the typical Brazilian mother who wakes up early, faces her erect life and dreams of a better future for her children, but without giving up the values. Maria de Fátima is the portrait of a youth marked by haste, the pressure of winning at any cost, the desire to break with the simplicity of origin, even if you have to” give a way “”, he says.
As a clinical psychologist, Tatiane says she often seeing this clash in the office. “Behind these differences there is a much greater question: the formation of our character. The way we face frustrations, the way we face the pains of life and the way we choose to react to the injustices we live, is what the molds who we are”, strengthens.
The role of cognitive behavioral therapy
“Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) teaches us that our central beliefs, often built during childhood, determine our thoughts, emotions and behaviors. A mother who conveys values of ethics and honesty can have a daughter who still internalizes beliefs such as:” If I do not exploit the opportunities, I will be past. “Sometimes distorted.”
The pain of a mother
With the approach of Mother’s Day, this story plays deeply. How many mothers have wondered if they are doing enough? If the children will appreciate what they have learned at home? And how many daughters are pressure to pay an ideal, forgetting to look inside and reflect: where does this urgency come from? What do I really want to get? And to what cost?
Is it all worth? No. “Because in the end, the real success is what we can support the pillow with a quiet head. And this, no mother can conquer for her daughter, but you can teach with the example.”
Source: Terra
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