Why do you attract people so different from you? Astrology explains

Why do you attract people so different from you? Astrology explains


Venus’s position on your astral card can reveal so that you attract people so different from what to imagine they want to want




Have you ever wondered why do you attract people so different from what you thought you wanted? Or do you think you always attract the same type of challenge in relationships? The answer can be in the position of Venus on your astral graph.

Many people believe that, if, for example, Venus in fish will automatically fall in love with people with piston characteristics. But this is a myth!

Venus’s position does not speak exactly of those who love – reveals Who attracts and how you act to attract who you want. And this can be very different from what you think.

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What Venus really indicates

Venus It is the planet that talks about our tastes, pleasures, affections and ways of relating. On the astral graph, he underlines:

  • As affection and affection monsters as you try to conquer the object of desire.
  • Who attracts
  • The type of person who tends to appear in his emotional life

But be careful: Venus NO defines the person This will attract youLike many people out there they still believe. Venus speaks more Who attracts who you feel attracted, Did you understand?

Do you know what your sign of Venus is?

Find out for free in the step:

  • Open your astral card character.
  • Include your birth data.
  • Under the mandala of your map, consult the list of planets and seek Venus.
  • Take a look at what sign is Venus on your map.

Venus and infernal astral: what should be done?

Now, here’s the cat’s jump: you knew it Venus on your map Is it often in the previous sign or in the sign next to your sun? And that these are signs are called Astral Hell?

YES! I know you’ve heard Astral HellRight? It is that sign that comes before or after yours, whose characteristics are the most difficult to face for you.

So tell me: does it make sense to think that these are the people who attract you? Obviously.

Now, does it make sense to think that these people can feel attracted to you? He does it! Why? Because it may be necessary to learn something like those characteristics that are demanding for your sign.

💘 Understanding everything here on astral hell in love

For example

If you have Venus FishYou can leave many people with the sign of fish enchanted by you. Does it mean it will work? Difficult!

Why not roll? Because our Venus is usually a sign before or a sign after ours.

Therefore, if you have Venus in the fish, you are aquarium or Ariano, which means that in both cases the floors will be extremely difficult to deal with.

But what about attraction rolls?

This is because the challenge has a special flavor, right? That thing “can I fold the crush and change it?”

The attraction does not only concern what is easy. It could have to do with the models we have had during childhood, what is familiar or what he challenges us to want to grow.

We like to think of loving only what is good, but in reality, love also concerns learning from difficulties and differences.

Venus and the so called “astral”: do you have a relationship?

Have you heard of the “astral hell”, that sign that comes before your zodiac and that usually brings tension?

And, as I said before, most of the time, Venus will be in your sign or in this sign, which will challenge your sun. And yes, these are often the people you will attract the most.

This dynamic shows that the attraction is not limited to comfort. In fact, we are deeply attracted to those who activate our blind points, they challenge us emotionally or expose vulnerability that we are still learning to manage.

How to deal with the attraction of your “astral hell”?

We are realistic here: if you attract you for the sign of someone who is Your astral hellYou could enter a real emotional Russian mountain.

But it may also be the challenge you need to grow, develop and evolve as a person. In the end, it all depends on what you are willing to learn and deal.

Here are some suggestions on how to deal with this energy of “demanding attraction” in love:

  1. Recognize the challenge: Understand that, yes, you may feel attracted to people whose characteristics can irritate you, but at the same time, they are those characteristics that can teach you to be a more patient understanding, and why not, more flexible.
  2. Open to growth: instead of escaping from the people who attract you (even if they challenge you), use it for grow emotionally. Each demanding relationship has something to teach, so take the opportunity!
  3. Do not confuse attraction with compatibility: Just because you feel a strong attraction for someone, it doesn’t mean you should relate to that person. Ask yourself: What do you really want to learn from this attraction?
  4. Embraces the challenges: Often the attraction for people who challenge you can be an indication that you have to work in certain aspects of your life, such as patience, communication or even dealing with the fear of the new – and it must not be through this relationship!

Your astral graph concerns learning, not the destination

Venus not dictated his loving future, nor determines who will arouse his passion. But it offers valuable clues about what you attract, so that some types of people cross your way and how do you want to show love for you.

Instead of seeing these repetitions like “misfortune in love“What do you say to face as an invitation to look at you deeper in you? Your astral card always offers the keys to grow – and Venus is one of the most powerful.

So the next time someone tells you “You will be attracted to the sign of Venus”It may be that this person is totally wrong! Venus is not who You feel attractedbut who Attract.

And no, it is not because the person has the mark of his astral hell that will be a trap! It could be a life lesson, but it depends on how you deal with this challenge.

The important thing is that you understand what Venus He says about your attraction and how You have to do with the challenges that these challenging energies. Maybe you are not exactly where it should be growing, learning and evolving in love?

Frequent doubts about Venus and Relations

1. If I don’t identify myself with my sign of Signus, is it so bad?

In no way. It only means that this energy can be less aware of you, so it manifests itself through the people you attract.

2. The sign of Venus of the other person matters?

Yes, but from another perspective. It shows how the other person loves. To find out if there is affinity, the ideal is to analyze the two maps together.

3. Can I change the type of person I draw?

Working your internal problems and developing your emotional consciousness, naturally begin to attract the most aligned people with your current moment of life.

4. What does Venus’s position mean on my map for my love life?

The position of Venus Indicates the type of person you attract, but it does not necessarily mean that you will be attracted to them.

5. If my Venus is in a sign that I don’t like, does it mean that I will attract the people I don’t like?

Not exactly. You can attract people who have features that you need to learn to manage. It can be demanding, but it is also an opportunity for growth.

6. How to deal with the “astral hell” in a relationship?

Accepts the challenge, learn from differences and uses the relationship to evolve emotionally. What seems difficult can be a springboard for your growth!

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Leafiness (info@marciapperienza.com)

– Asologist and therapist for over 20 years. Associates your experience with analytical advice with astrology work to facilitate self -awareness, empowerment and personal transformation.

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