Nora De Ratinho reports that the prejudice suffered by his son, who lives with the hydrocephalus: “I teach him to be proud”

Nora De Ratinho reports that the prejudice suffered by his son, who lives with the hydrocephalus: “I teach him to be proud”


In an interview, Bruna Massa also commented that his grandfather, even busy, is present in the creation of the child


Summary

The psychologist Bruna Massa shared the challenges and learning as the mother of Noah, with a diagnosis of hydrocephalus, highlighting family support, daily resignation and the importance of union and adaptation in atypical motherhood.




The 32 -year psychologist Bruna Massa, known as the daughter of the presenter Ratinho, remembered when he received the diagnosis of Noah Idrocephaly (7), his firstborn with Gabriel Massa, would not have had a check for a check. With the magazine Quem.

Ever since he faced the clinical conditions of his son, Bruna Massa has started to better understand atypical motherhood, lived by women who have children with physical disabilities, neurodicing disorders or conditions of assistance. Currently, he is also the mother of David (2).

“What supported us most was the faith, union and the certainty that we had to be strong for him. Gabriel and I understood that there was no room for guilt or disputes, we were in the same team. We created a mutual support routine: when one mistreatment, the other was going on, one day at a time. With challenges.”

The fact that Noah is different often arouse curiosity in society. Speaking of possible looks or invasive questions, Bruna Massa explains how it deals with these situations in everyday life. “I try to answer the questions of people in a natural way, because I believe that the information decreases prejudice. But I have also set limits – not everything that must be explained. Above all, I teach noah to be proud of what it is.”

The motherhood of the attic, however, can be demanding sometimes, especially for the wedding. The psychologist recognizes that his marriage to Gabriel had to adapt to resist. “We had moments of wear, like every couple who faces a great challenge. But we also had a profound strengthening. We learned to communicate better, to respect our limits and to be proud of each other. Today I see Gabriel not only as my husband, but as a battlefield and an admirable father. It is in the most difficult moments that we discover who people are and are great entrusted to us.



Gabriel Massa and his two children, David and Noah


Gabriel Massa and his two children, David and Noah

Over the years, facing the condition of Noah, Bruna Massa and Gabriel have understood that learning must be constant. “We have learned that life concerns adaptation and resignation. That every milestone in the development of Noah, however small, is a great victory. And that it is possible to find joy even on the most difficult days. Let’s never imagine that we would be able to so many problems.

The psychologist also commented that the family usually helps a lot in the development and creation of the firstborn. The grandfather, the mouse, for example, despite the haste, makes a point of being present every time he can. “Our family is a pillar. The mouse, my father -in -law, has an immense love for Noah. Although the race that is his life every week – I repeat, every week – finds a way to visit Noah and spend time with him. This is something that, like the mother, makes me very happy, knowing that it is much loved by the whole family.”

Hydrocephaly is a condition that occurs when an excessive accumulation of cerebrospinal liquid (CSF) in the brain ventricles. For this reason, it can cause an increase in the size of children and delay development; In adults, intense headache, balance problems, memory loss and cognitive changes. Treatment usually involves a valve to drain the liquid and check the pressure. The condition can be congenital or acquired.

Source: Terra

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