Find out how to explore your sexuality with much more pleasure A survey conducted by Hibou found that 79% of women have faked orgasms during sex, which shows that female sexuality is still taboo. But we can overcome all this and, to help us, we ask Tamara […]
Find out how you can explore your sexuality with much more pleasure
A survey conducted by Hibou found that 79% of women have faked orgasms during sex, which shows that female sexuality is still taboo. But overcoming all this is possible and to help us we asked Tamara W. Zanotelli, a sexologist, sexologist, speaker and entrepreneur, to explain how women can experience more pleasure during sex.
First of all, Tamara reminds us that sexual pleasure goes far beyond penetration, especially for women. “Female sexuality is multifaceted and pleasure can be experienced in different ways. Stimulating erogenous zones, such as the clitoris and G-spot, and enhancing emotional connection, foreplay and individual needs are fundamental aspects of a rich sexual experience and satisfying”, he highlights.
Let’s get to the tips for the best positions!
First of all, it is very important to talk about it and always remember that every woman is unique, but there are some positions that are today’s favorites – even for anal sex – as listed below.
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1) Lotus
It is the position in which the woman sits on her partner’s lap while he sits with his legs crossed. “This allows for intimate contact, kissing, the ability to control the angle and, most importantly, the depth of penetration. There is also direct friction in the clitoral region, which can be very pleasurable for the woman.”
2) Horse riding
It is a type where the woman is on top and has total control over the pace, depth and angle of penetration, which can make stimulating her clitoris against her partner’s body and spot area much easier G, being one of the best positions. “In addition to the fact that the woman has total control over determining the speed of movement,” Tamara emphasizes.
3) Spoon position
This is the one lying on his side, while the partner penetrates the woman from behind. “It’s great for slightly deeper and slower penetration, because it also allows easy access to the clitoris with your hands.” *It is also recommended for anal sex, as it allows for smoother penetration and allows the woman to have greater depth control. It is ideal for beginners in anal practice.
4) Doggy style
This is a variant of the position in which the woman is on all fours and the partner penetrates her from behind, but in this case with her shoulders and arms closer to the bed. “It can be particularly pleasant because it allows deep penetration and stimulation of the G-spot area and even the clitoris, with the help of the hands or a sex toy,” says the sexologist. *It is also recommended for anal sex.
5) Missionary
It’s the traditional mom-dad, but it’s one of the best positions and here we put a pillow under the butt to change the angle of penetration. “This can make its penetration deeper and potentially more stimulating for the G-spot as well.”
6) “Modified” missionary.
It is a variation of the previous position. The person receiving lies on their stomach and places their legs over their partner’s shoulders or keeps their knees bent at the top. “This allows for much deeper penetration, but also offers a lot of control over the angle of entry, making it one of the best positions. It is not normally a position for beginners, as it is a little more complex,” concludes the expert.
Saliva is not lubricant!
While it may seem like an easy fix, the sexologist warns that saliva is not recommended as a lubricant for important reasons. “Saliva has lubricating properties that it completely lacks. It dries quickly, which can interrupt the moment or not provide the necessary protection against friction and discomfort. In addition, it can contain bacteria, viruses and microorganisms
that cause infections, especially during anal sex, where the tissues are more sensitive to small tears or cracks, which increases the risk of sexually transmitted diseases and can disturb the bacterial balance in the intimate region”, advises Tamara.
However, it is important to underline that lubrication is essential to ensure comfort and pleasure during sexual intercourse, as well as playing an important role in the health of the vaginal mucosa. So the advice is to abuse lubricants and overcome the taboo according to which women always need to be well lubricated! “In older women it may become even more essential due to the natural reduction in vaginal lubricant production,” adds the sexologist.
Source: Terra
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