“Panacea”: how to understand that he only needs you to survive the break with the old

“Panacea”: how to understand that he only needs you to survive the break with the old

For a man who’s been through a tough breakup, a new date can truly be a plantain leaf that heals a broken heart. You hardly like this role!

“Restorative Relationship” is the name of psychotherapist Brooke Sproul’s “healing” novel. There are no universal signs that you have become a participant in such a connection, however, there are red flags to watch out for.

He fell in love with you too soon

A man called you his one and only, even though you met literally 10 minutes ago? Are you just basking in his adoration? “Ask yourself if you have become a blank canvas on which a person projects their feelings,” advises psychotherapist Erin McMoe Tierno.

You are constantly compared to your ex

Of course, not in her favor: “It’s great that you like to hike – Christina just hated them!” At first glance, this seems like a compliment – in fact, your passion for adventure does not matter, it only matters that the “ex” cannot stand them. “If you’re constantly being compared to ‘negative,’ it’s best to get out of that relationship immediately,” advises Tierno.

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Relationships grow fast and slow at the same time

In a week, he confessed his love to you, you spend several hours every day corresponding and going out at the first opportunity, and at the same time you know almost nothing about him? According to psychotherapist Shanet Dennis, very often heartbroken people behave this way – they try to talk about themselves as little as possible so they don’t really get close.

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He is emotionally withdrawn

A man often talks about love, but never shows emotions? Sproul thinks that’s what people who have been through a painful breakup do — they don’t want to become vulnerable again.

He often scolds his ex

The guy claims that their relationship is “over forever”, but at the same time, for no reason, he often starts furiously scolding the girlfriend who left him? “It means a lot of emotions are not being processed and the person is not yet healed from the breakup,” says Dennis.

Is it OK to speak ill of an ex?

Yes

No

He exposes you

The number of your couple selfies on his page is more than reasonable, and the captions seem too enthusiastic? According to Tierno, this can mean that a man is trying to get the attention of a girl who left him – especially if he is constantly liking and commenting on her posts.

Source: The Voice Mag

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