It is very important to remember that the presence or absence of sexual chemistry does not affect the quality of your relationship. If your desires match, it’s not the cake itself, but the decoration on it. Here are the signs of this very chemistry, which is not limited to the libido.
1. You can communicate with and without words
Two souls in one pulse – it’s wonderful. You can chat in the clear about any aspect of sex or just look each other in the eye and feel the power of telepathy.
2. You trust yourself completely
Good sex and confidence go hand in hand. Everything makes sense: knowing a partner means being protected, tested for diseases and hiding nothing. And this also means that he has studied your body perfectly, respects you and does not judge you.
Trying new things, using sex toys, and not forcing yourself to do what the other person doesn’t want. And your sex will never get boring.
4. You are both ready to have sex on the first call.
It’s amazing how quickly you two light up! Even if one is very busy, he is always ready for a pit stop. You are a great team.
5. You don’t get bored of sex.
You don’t consider it a routine, you don’t do it for show or because one wanted and the other obeyed. Everything happens quite often and naturally.
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You easily laugh at rare failures in bed, do not take offense if someone falls asleep quickly. It’s sex – weird, funny and whatever.
You’re working together on a common cause, not on who gets to orgasm faster.
Before, during or after, it never looks silly. All is correct.
You and him feel sexy and worthy of the best. The way he looks at you, touches you, makes you feel and turn you on, then works on his arousal, and this cycle continues until orgasm.
Don’t spend your days analyzing what went well and what didn’t. If it was great, it’s fine. If not, then better luck next time. And that’s the most important thing.