5 types of men you need to run away from headlong

How to calculate it? As a rule, his tongue hangs perfectly, he knows how to take care of himself, the degree of his charm spills over.

We often fall in love with these seedy Don Juans and hope to take the vacant place of Donna Anna in their lives: after all, as treacherous as he is, sooner or later he will want to stop? Moreover, lovers of a collection for themselves are well acquainted with female psychology and are able to strike on all fronts: playing on pity and fear, maternal instinct, classic female self-denial.

But! People don’t change… And if his love biography has a dozen or two betrayals and his phone is full of “rabbits” and “suns” of all kinds, it’s time for you to do your feet.

“I met one of these “collectors” when I was a student. The handsome head man of the institute was a worthy title, and as his girlfriend I drew envious glances at myself. Fortunately, everything ended with the diploma, but somehow I decided to take an interest in his fate and climb the social network. After a short correspondence, everything became clear: he never built a single normal relationship, he never loved anyone, and at the same time he tried to cheaply and ridiculously charm me. I think he just doesn’t know how to be honest with a woman – that’s his problem.

How to calculate it? After the first date, he waited a few days and only then showed up, mysteriously looked at close range, then turned away at the party, as if you didn’t even know each other, disappeared and reappeared, played hot-cold, criticized and showered with compliments… it will do good.

The game of hunter and prey rarely ends with the beginning of the novel: after all, these mannerisms will go nowhere from both the person themselves and the relationship itself.

“I have repeatedly met men with whom everything was going well: appointments, calls, projects, prospects. But at some point, I felt like an emotional adrenaline rush, and contacted a “deadly” man. I ran on dates in the middle of the night, waited for a call, lost my appetite, went crazy… But I finally woke up: instead of a relationship healthy, I deliberately introduced myself into a love addiction.

How to calculate it? He is a strong personality, able to take responsibility, make decisions and protect! But what happens next? So he insists that you quit your job (“I make a lot of money, we have enough for two!”), checks your correspondence history (“Well, we trust each other!”) and tries to protect you from friends (“Why do you have other people close, if there is me?”).

“I had a very strict father, and that’s probably why I was often in contact with bullies. It seemed to me that a loving man would control, be jealous, stand his ground and bend you to his perception of the world. Luckily, it soon became clear that I had too strong a character: I can’t be broken so easily. Now I’m happy with a really strong partner: he’s so confident in himself that he doesn’t won’t waste time making its own rules and believes in freedom of choice.

How to calculate it? We feed on the illusion that an unworking, unrealized grown man is Roman Abramovich in disguise. But, as hard as it is to admit, an unemployed 30 to 31 year old will not become a millionaire.

But a loser is not an income level at all, but a certain type of character. The Loser likes to rationalize his inaction with some weird ideology, like “all the rich are thieves”, and believes in sweet fairy tales that he should be loved against all odds.

Of course, not everyone is ready to boast of a stunning career and an impressive score. But losers are distinguished by the fact that they envy someone else’s success, hate everything and everyone, do not believe in themselves and simply do not know how to make money. Even the most humble.

“During the five years of marriage, I waited for my husband to suddenly come to his senses, come to his senses and start earning money. But with my behavior I raised a real gigolo, who in recent years lived and ate exclusively at my expense. Some friends said you had to force him to do something, others assured that you will get results with love and support, but I realized that it was better not to play with it losers: we always deserve the best.

How to calculate it? He broke up with this one because she went to work in the United States, on the other hand, because her parents did not accept her, and that one over there was cheating on him. He is already well “for” (or “under”), and behind his back there is not a single successful romance. His strange behavior, multiplied by a sad biography of love, will lift the veil of secrecy: far from it, everything is fine for him.

“Not so long ago, I fell in love with a man who charmed and charmed, but was very, very difficult. A month later, I found myself in the eternal confrontation, debriefing. .. He took some of my little actions to hurt him, he behaved inappropriately, was jealous from scratch… Now I broke up with him, and I’m still fresh in my memory of these takedowns. But the good, no matter how hard I try, is hard to remember.