So girls, don’t panic. Probably, each of us had a chance to rush around the house in horror, thinking what it would mean if he did not answer your message for four hours, and you know for sure that he is not at work. And now they’ve finally told us what’s behind how quickly a man responds to women’s text messages.
1. He answers you immediately.
Or he loves you so much that the most important thing for him is to be in contact with you. Or he’s a jerk who has no job, no hobby, no friends, no important things, no purpose in life, and he’s busy all day sitting and waiting that at least someone writes to him. And your message to him is like manna from heaven, upon which he immediately throws himself, like a hungry man in the desert.
2. It responds within minutes.
It’s a fairly common weekend option among people who love each other, because it means: he’s not constantly on the phone, but often enough to check if someone (like you) has written to him.
Well, either he’s sitting with the phone in his hand and waiting for your message, but hesitates a bit with the answer, so you don’t think he’s sitting like a fool with the phone in his hand and waiting for your message .
3. He sends a reply in an hour or two.
Sometimes we see that someone has written to us, but we are so tired that we do not have the strength to respond right away, and we want to at least take a break from communicating with people. And it doesn’t matter. Or we got distracted by something (cooking, showering, watching an interesting program) and didn’t hear how the text message came. It is also normal.
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4. It constantly responds to you for the same amount of time.
It happens that you leaf through the messages of a young man and you discover an astonishing coincidence. For example, he still responds to you 66 minutes after you text him. What the hell? Either it really is an “incredible coincidence” or he read some shitty book from the “How to Become a Pickup King” series, the author of which advised you to wait just long enough for you to think about him all the time, or some kind of satanic ritual. Or maybe he has obsessive-compulsive disorder and counts the minutes to get an answer the same way he counts all the cracks in the asphalt on the way home?
Just in case, ask him in the meantime what that means.
5. Sometimes the messages come right away, sometimes he replies like nothing until the next day.
Educated young men, having been delayed for an unusually long time with an answer, nevertheless ask for forgiveness and explain that they left urgently for their grandmother in a village where the telephone does not pick up, or something like that . Otherwise, you start wondering if he was with someone else or if you wrote him something so silly that he chose to keep quiet.
6. He always only writes the next day.
A bit strange habit, but it happens. Maybe he is so busy that he delays answering and just forgets.
7. He replies in a few days.
It’s even weirder since almost everyone is online 24/7 these days. So if he’s been waiting days before sending a pathetic “Good” to your “How are you?” either he’s trying to play some weird game or he really doesn’t care about you, sorry.
8. He writes in a week as a support person at a large company.
One of two: either he had a tragedy and couldn’t do anything or talk to anyone, or he just wasn’t going to respond, but he needed a girlfriend for the night, and he decided it was not too late to respond.
9. If he writes when you haven’t heard from him in so long that you’ve already managed to delete his number.
This is the previous point multiplied by a thousand. Most likely, he didn’t really like you, he decided to leave you, maybe he managed to change several girlfriends during this time, part with them, and then one lonely night he broke up. remembered you and decided that it was an option, and you would scream with happiness, having received from him “Hello, how are you?”
And you say, “Oh, who is that?” Oops.
Source: The Voice Mag
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