This request from the husbands of young mothers has exasperated gynecologists: guess what’s going on?

For the first time, midwife Danielle Jones, MD, also referred to as “TikTok’s first gynecologist,” spoke about the new issue.

The woman recorded a video in which she depicts a conversation with a young couple who just had a baby. “Great job, mom! You have a little gap here – we call these first degree gaps. It only takes a few stitches to stop the bleeding. You won’t feel anything because the epidural is still working. I can do it in a second,” says Dr Jones, impersonating herself.

Then she moves on to another role – a young father who demands “one more point” for him. Daniel communicates with him ironically: “Of course, sir! It’s amazing how little you need!” After that, the doctor gets serious and explains, “My job is to repair any tissue that was damaged when the child was born. I shouldn’t change the size. from the entrance to the vagina and I would never do it for ethical reasons.According to Jones, she has met men who have asked for an extra point.

Soon, other doctors took the floor: they confirmed that such cases really do happen and said what they thought about such wishes.

Usually one or two stitches are enough to repair the tear after childbirth. The idea behind the “man point” is to add an extra one that will shrink the woman’s vagina, thus giving the man more pleasure during sex.

Jessica Shepherd, MD, OB-GYN, laments the myth that childbirth leaves the vagina “stretched” is still a very common myth. In fact, it’s not – it returns to its normal size very quickly. Our body is not a child’s t-shirt that changes forever if an adult wears it. Our tissues have elasticity and resilience, allowing the vagina to regenerate.

According to the doctors who participated in the discussion, the “male point” will only harm – this will lead to the fact that during sex a woman will feel pain. And therefore, no doctor should accept an extra point, even if the girl, like her husband, insists on it.