I’m Friends and I’m Sleeping: 5 Pros and Cons of Sex Without Commitment

I’m Friends and I’m Sleeping: 5 Pros and Cons of Sex Without Commitment

Having sex with someone you really don’t owe anything to, without having to be together all the time and work out conflicts… Sounds good, doesn’t it? But friendship with sex not only has its advantages, but also its disadvantages!

Plus: You don’t wait for calls

No more hypnotizing the phone waiting for it to call you and invite you somewhere. You are friends, that is, you know a lot, but you are not bored every second.

Disadvantages: you can lose a friend

During such a relationship, one of you may develop feelings for a partner, and such situations may be difficult to resolve without loss.

Advantages: few responsibilities

You don’t have to maintain relations with each other’s family, you can move to another city or change jobs. Comfortable!

Cons: Difficult to build relationships

It is inconvenient to take such a friend with you to a wedding with friends like “+1”. It’s already kind of embarrassing to sob on his shoulder, you can’t hug friendly on the couch. The devil is in the details.

Plus: you can watch other men

In fact, you are now alone, which means that no one will forbid you to choose interesting partners from acquaintances, for example.

Cons: And he can watch other women

You never know when your sexual relationship will end and only the friendship (or nothing at all) will remain.

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Pros: It’s safer than a one-night stand

Plus, you don’t have to search for it.

Minus: you can lose alertness

If you relax too much and forget about birth control, you can “befriend” an unwanted pregnancy or an infection.

Plus: you can fall in love with each other

And then the relationship will develop on its own, and everyone will be satisfied.

Cons: you can’t fall in love with each other

And it will be very sad, because you will find yourself on another level of relationship. The ending, as usual, is unpredictable.

Source: The Voice Mag

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