The sexologist analyzes the relationship between the traditions Improta and Leo Santana and exhibits secret: “important”

Improta Lore exposed a little on his wedding a Leo Santana and the changes after the arrival of his daughter Liz. In fact, he confessed that the couple gives priority to care in the relationship. After the comment, the sexologist Barbara Bastos He analyzed the relationship between the famous and commented on the impacts of motherhood and paternity.

“Living marriage with presence and exchange, you are not just taking care of the relationship, but of the family. Before being a mother and father, there are both. Love is a small plant, which must be watered every day.”The dancer said. In an interview with Caras Brasil, Barbaric He commented on the importance that the couple was aligned after the arrival of his son.

“Because, before having children, the time you have are only you – of the couple and also individually. There is more freedom, more disposal. Now, when the children arrive, especially the first, there is a being that depends on one hundred percent of the parents for everything: to eat, sleep, be welcomed … anyway, to survive” commented.

Sexual has also said that it is natural that the couple’s energy changes, since growing a child is more work and responsibility. “And I don’t say it from a negative place, in any way”, underlined. “But we must recognize that energy, sleep, time and even the change of freedom. And everything is fine.”

Therefore, underlines the importance of a good conversation and communication in marriage. “So it is so important to align these expectations before. When there is this previous dialogue, everything becomes lighter when children arrive. It is easier to communicate, organize, adjust the routines. And why is it easier? Why, inevitably, the couple will have to face challenges.”

Risks and marriage care

But what are the risks that the couple can face right now? According to the professional, the emotional distance and the failure in communication negatively influence sex and emotional life. “Due to tiredness and stress, the way to communicate often becomes harder, closer. Not necessarily aggressive, but with a harder and impatient tone – and this influences the relationship”, He said.

Indeed, Barbaric He also stressed that sexual intimacy requires more than will: “As for sex, it is important to remember that desire does not derive from nothing. It depends on energy, time, connection. And all this can be compromised. In the case of women, in particular, postpartum hormones are focused on the survival of that child, not biologically speaking, again. The woman’s body understands it. So it is natural that desire is lower at the moment. “

In addition, this removal can affect the affection and exchange between the couple. “In addition to sexuality, other areas of the relationship can be influenced: affection, touch, eye. commented.

Source: Terra