The Globo actress remembers what it was like to be raised by a gay father: “Liberator”

The Globo actress remembers what it was like to be raised by a gay father: “Liberator”


Born in France, she was raised in Brazil by the dancer and director Ricardo Bandeira




Valentina Bandera30 years old, was born in France but moved to Brazil as a child. Daughter of the dancer and director Ricardo Bandeirashe states it Being raised by a gay father ‘was liberating’.

I am the daughter of a gay fatherand raised me in a time when there weren’t many openly gay parents of high school friends. I was the only one. He created me on a doctrine of liberation precisely so that I could receive this information more lightly when I understood the whole scenario. He didn’t tell me he was gay to a 3-year-old, it took him a while to tell me straight up, but he educated me so that this information would get to me when it got to me,” he said. Valentina Banderain an interview with Marie Claire.

The way she was raised, she says, taught her to do that respect differencesto discover yourself with more peace of mind and to be able to have youth experiences without suffering any kind of pressure or prejudice.

“I had a very libertarian upbringing. People ask me if it’s traumatizing to have a gay father, but it’s the thing I’m most proud of about my upbringing. It opened me up to the world as it is: different and tolerant of differences.”

As for yours sexualityhe jokes that he considers himself astraight obligatory‘, in other words, no possibility of change. “To my family’s disappointment. I like ‘women’ who wear team jerseys, you know?” he jokes. “My father doesn’t care, I guess, who I blame. It’s not his problem.”

During the interview, the actress also took stock of how she sees the women today. For her, class advanced compared to less privileged positions and rightsbut there is still a struggle.

“We have a terrible religious and moralistic legacy, which causes us to oppress ourselves and be oppressed. But we are moving forward. I am 30 years old and I see people in their 20s with many more questions than people in their 20s. Things are moving a lot quickly because of the power of the Internet, of globalization, because the problems are universal, but we still have great barriers that are difficult to break down. There is a frighteningly strong traditionalism and conservatism.

Source: Terra

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