In the Children’s Map the Numbers representing the Challenges help to understand the experiences that come from childhood
One of life’s most intriguing discoveries is that our strength often lies in our weaknesses, and those weaknesses can be rooted in whatever trauma you carry with you from childhood.
However, these painful experiences, whether we experienced them directly or observed our parents, can be the source of our greatest strength and existential satisfaction.
To do this, we must learn about these wounds and traumas that we carry with us since childhood. In this sense Numerology is a very useful and powerful tool.
To the Numerology map for childrenThe Numbers that represent our Challenges help us understand the experiences we faced during childhood.
Therefore, knowledge of these influences can be liberating and bring significant changes to our lives in the present.
The Numerological Map, in addition to revealing the meaning of the Challenges, also identifies them talents we have carried with us since childhood, known as Existential Lessons (see yours here!). These indicate what we need to overcome and try to accomplish in our lives.
How to find out what traumas you carry from childhood
First, you need to create your child’s map to discover the numbers of your challenge. It’s very simple and free. Follow step by step:
- Log in here Map Children
- Enter your name and date of birth.
- Click to generate the free version.
- When you open the map, write down what your challenge numbers are (there are 4).
- So, come back here and see what each issue reveals about the traumas you carry from childhood.
Challenge number 1
Perhaps your childhood was marked by an extremely protective or authoritarian father, who caused a wound in your identity. In this sense, this relationship may have left signs of insecurity, fear of taking risks and fear of being different.
As a result, it may be a challenge for you to gain independence, autonomy and the ability to follow your own desires and plans. Overcoming the dependence on male figures is the central objective.
Therefore, the healing journey begins when you learn to trust yourself and your personal resources. Developing the courage to be authentic, original and engage in challenges that promote innovation, leadership and progress is key.
During this process, you may notice fluctuations between extreme behaviors, sometimes acting arrogant and impulsive and other times passive and compliant.
Challenge number 2
Related to the traumas you carry with you from childhood, there may be a love-hate relationship with your mother or another female figure.
You may have been overprotected by your mother or grandmother, or, at the other extreme, you may have felt abandoned due to an emotional disconnection with these figures.
This can make it uncomfortable to manage emotions, express feelings, or relate to women.
These past experiences may have generated extreme sensitivity, which led to frequent tears or, conversely, the need to contain one’s emotions and maintain control to avoid emotional injury.
In this sense, your healing begins when you develop emotional maturity and naturally deal with the emotional world, the unconscious and the subtleties of relationships.
Recognizing and expressing your feelings with affection, understanding and diplomacy, especially in relationships with women, helps heal your internal wound.
Challenge number 3
As a child you may have felt inferior to a sibling, cousin, or colleague. Perhaps you have been compared negatively, considered less attractive, less knowledgeable, or inferior in some way.
As a result, expressing oneself, socializing, sharing thoughts and creativity can be uncomfortable activities.
Regaining your self-confidence and self-esteem is your main challenge. Having fun, seeking pleasure, and engaging in artistic pursuits may be associated with fear of exposure and criticism, or the ghost of comparison with others from your childhood.
Therefore, healing from this wound occurs when you overcome discomfort, focusing on the pleasure of expressing yourself and allowing your inner light to shine.
This way, your self-esteem grows and you feel more comfortable sharing your creativity, ideas and charisma with others.
Challenge number 4
Related to traumas you carry with you from childhood, there may be severe responsibilities and strict discipline, or at the other extreme, excessive protection to ensure your safety.
This may have generated intense worry about practical matters, such as health, cleanliness, organization, work or routine.
Therefore, you may experience discomfort when dealing with schedules, planning, goals, healthy eating, and regular physical activity.
Therefore, healing your wound occurs when you find a balance between rest and activity, work and free time, and maintain a responsible and moderate approach to everyday reality.
Challenge number 5
Your childhood may have been marked by abrupt or constant changes, such as moving to another city because of your parents’ jobs, creating instability and breaking friendships.
On the other hand, you may have experienced a childhood with a monotonous, highly controlled routine, where safety was a priority.
These extremes reflect the influence on your personality related to the Challenge of Number 5.
This can cause discomfort in the face of change, surprises and limitations, leading to excessively controlling behavior or the other extreme, where one indulges in exaggerated impulses around food, drink and commitments.
Therefore, healing from this wound occurs when balance and discipline is found, learning to enjoy the pleasures of the five senses without exaggerating.
This implies relating with detachment, meeting and interacting with different people and groups, engaging without losing one’s freedom.
Challenge number 6
Your childhood may have been marked by significant conflicts in the family environment, involving your parents, uncles or siblings. This may have generated discomfort in dealing with friction, disagreements and conflicts in social and family relationships.
You may tend to avoid group or romantic relationships, especially when your expectations for an ideal relationship are not met.
Or, at the other extreme, you may be constantly seeking relationships, but withdraw when conflicts arise, avoiding the discomfort of dealing with disagreements.
Therefore, healing from this wound occurs when you develop understanding and acceptance of people’s qualities and flaws. Learn to negotiate, dialogue and seek fair agreements, even when situations do not perfectly meet your expectations.
Challenge number 7
Your childhood may have been influenced by a religious, superstitious environment or, at the other extreme, an emphasis on science, rationality and skepticism towards mysteries and subtle realities.
Perhaps you have experienced mysterious events or family secrets, such as betrayal, without fully understanding what happened.
This can generate fear of reality, of truth and resistance to investigating beyond appearances. As a result, you may withdraw from social life and prefer to remain on the fringes of society. Or you may become obsessed with seeking material success by uncovering secrets and complexities.
Therefore, healing this wound occurs when you avoid extremes, finding a balance between skepticism and trust in yourself, others and life. Develop faith (not necessarily religious) and deepen your knowledge in areas of interest.
This way, you can become a valued expert by sharing your knowledge and insights with others.
Challenge number 8
Your childhood may have been marked by significant changes in the family’s financial situation, due to the professional failure or success of your parents, or the abuse of authority by one of your guardians. This can create discomfort in dealing with material issues, personal power, and authority.
You may feel insecure about taking personal power, leading, and organizing, due to memories of financial conflict and abuse of authority.
Therefore, the healing of your wound occurs when you make peace with money, understand the difference between ambition and greed, and direct your energy towards meaningful achievement and a prosperous, philanthropic life.
Challenge number 9
Your childhood may have involved sacrifices, whether you sacrificed yourself so as not to upset your grandparents, or your parents made great sacrifices for you due to illness or limitations.
This can create a conflict between the need to stand out and be recognized and the desire to help others.
Therefore, healing your wound begins when you understand the importance of taking care of yourself, developing self-knowledge and maturity.
Only then will you be able to share your humanitarian potential, inspiring others and maintaining meaningful relationships without losing your freedom and balance.
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Yub Miranda (yubmiranda@yahoo.com.br)
– Numerologist, astrologer and tarot reader.
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