Find out which accessories are best for each situation and how to use them to warm up the relationship
Did you know that good sexual intercourse is essential to maintaining the quality of the relationship? However, keeping the flame burning can be a challenge. Therefore, we can (and should) use erotic products to spice up the relationship.
You can find a wide range of erotic products in sex shops. You should choose based on the couple’s preferences and needs.
Some products have a temporary therapeutic function since, during sexual intercourse, they reverse conditions such as vaginismus, anorgasmia and premature ejaculation.
Furthermore, erotic products help increase the libido of people with low sexual desire.
What you need to know before using erotic products
Before using a new product, it is recommended to apply a small amount to a less sensitive area of the body, such as the wrist, to test for any allergic reactions.
Pregnant women should avoid products that are introduced into the vaginal canal as, depending on the composition, they can be harmful. Furthermore, they can intensify local circulation and influence the birth process.
Products vary by brand and may have different effects. If a product does not provide the desired effect, it is advisable to try a different brand.
It’s important to note that many sex shop products are labeled “massage oil,” a generic nomenclature due to the lack of specific regulation for the promised uses.
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Guide to erotic products by category
For oral sex
The vast majority of oral sex products hide strong odors and provide different flavors.
Some types of gels provide a “shock” or vibration sensation. It is made hot or cold, or simply makes the area more sensitive, to enhance the stimulation and, consequently, pleasure.
It is worth mentioning that there is also the mouth freshener to mask your breathing and lubricate your mouth. Specifically, do not place it in the genital area, as it may contain alcohol.
For a sensual massage
Massage is a great weapon of seduction, since the body disconnects from the external environment, turns to the stimulus it receives and relaxes, also opening up to excitement. Both the recipient and the masseur relax and engage in the present moment, which significantly increases the couple’s engagement.
Use the massage candle light up and pass close to the body, so that the very hot molten drops fall on the person. The effect is very pleasant and exciting for those who receive it. Since they do not contain paraffin, these candles do not burn and some are even edible!
Another product tip is to massage bar. It looks like soap, is square and should be used to massage your partner’s body. It is also highly hydrating and very relaxing.
If you want something bolder, use “Spanish” massage gel., which sharpens the sensations of the body in which it is placed. You should therefore use it on the erogenous parts and, as the name suggests, especially on the breasts, for both women and men.
Masturbate
A masturbation during sex it increases the couple’s desire and intimacy, making the act more authentic and pleasant.
For women who like to masturbate their partner, or even for those who have difficulty, the hold egg It’s a fantastic male masturbator. It’s a silicone egg, filled with heart-shaped bristles. To use it, just put a good lubricant inside the Tenga Egg and wrap it around your penis. Next, perform masturbation movements.
If you prefer to use your hands, you can simply rely on a product that makes movement more fluid and lighter, the so-called “silk touch”. With it the hand slides more easily and makes the movement more pleasant.
Now, if you want to cause different sensations with your touch, the Expand It’s a great product for that. Developed especially for men, but also used by women, it enhances sensations, heats and vibrates, and is an excellent vasodilator, promoting orgasm.
To intensify orgasm through penetration
OR “drops of pleasure” gel It is one of the best, as it is able to increase the temperature of the vagina, increasing the pleasure of both during intercourse, as well as facilitating orgasm.
The product should be placed on the tip of the finger, on average about five drops. Next, insert your finger into the vaginal canal, spreading it along the vaginal wall, using “u” movements, called perineal massage.
You can also pass it on directly on the G-spot (most prominent region within the vaginal canal, perpendicular to the clitoris), and also on the clitoris itself.
Composed of tea tree, ylang-ylang and cloves, it is a composition of extremely aphrodisiac oils – see all aphrodisiac essential oils here.
There is also the “access point”, which has a heating function and is used by men, on the glans, or by women, on the clitoris and vaginal canal. It is also a vasodilator that provides a feeling of warmth.
For anal sex
Anal sex is a very controversial practice because it can cause pain. Before practicing, I recommend you read here how to have anal sex safely.
Physiologically speaking, the anus does not have the anatomy for anal sex, so if you want to perform the practice, it is essential to be careful. One of them is the use of lubricant with a greater amount of analgesic.
But those who are already accustomed to the practice can look for lubricants with little or no painkillers and other products that provide different sensations.
Never use products that remove all sensation in the region, such as xylocaine, as pain is a baseline. If there is no sensation, the injury could be quite serious.
OR “deep” It is a sphincter dilator with analgesic. Therefore the gel must be introduced into the rectum, while the cream can be positioned around the anus, on the outside. You can also use it in the vaginal canal, if you feel pain during intercourse or for those who have difficulty penetrating.
Another highly recommended product, during and after anal intercourse, is Moisturizing body gel with jojoba-based microcapsulesproviding a healing effect on possible injuries that may occur during intercourse.
Anyone who is already accustomed to the practice can use the product “only joy”which has the same lubrication, but with less analgesic, for greater sensitivity.
To prolong male erection and delay ejaculation
For men who want to prolong their relationship, there are many products that help achieve this goal.
OR cock ring is one of these, it is a silicone ring placed at the base of the erect penis. In addition to delaying ejaculation, the penis becomes firmer.
Already the “long heat” it can be placed on the body of the penis and glans, before the member is erect. It has the same effect as the ring: it prolongs erection and delays ejaculation.
Try it!
Now, choose the best product for your relationship and try it. Try a lot!
The best tool to make the relationship wonderful is to trust what you are doing, trust yourself and dedicate yourself to the relationship.
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Roberta Struzani (fisioterapia.roberta@gmail.com)
– Therapist specializing in sexuality and gynecological health. Provides in-person and online services focused on self-knowledge, increasing self-esteem and the health of the female reproductive system. His main working tool is pompoarism.
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Ben Stock is a lifestyle journalist and author at Gossipify. He writes about topics such as health, wellness, travel, food and home decor. He provides practical advice and inspiration to improve well-being, keeps readers up to date with latest lifestyle news and trends, known for his engaging writing style, in-depth analysis and unique perspectives.
