My boyfriend is boring; Should I end it?

First of all, you need to understand if the person has always been like this or is it something specific?

Doctor, my boyfriend is very annoying. Should I send him for a walk or try to make him change? (yes)

The first question is: Has your boyfriend always been boring, or did he start to become boring after dating for a certain period of time?

This is important because the discomfort you are referring to, if it is a characteristic of him, could be related to some mental health issue. For example, difficulty in relationships, or mild depression, which we call dysthymia, could be a personality characteristic…

It would be important, therefore, for you to understand if it has always been this way or if it has just started to work this way. If it has started to work, it would be important to understand what is happening in the relationship, if he is going through a more complicated phase in his life, among other possibilities.

I think it is important that you talk, that you understand what his role is in your life, what your role is in his life and what you can do to improve. Because being with someone who is very boring, you get angry and there is no possibility of change, you have to think about whether this is the type of relationship you want in your life, or if it is worth investing so that, together, you can find the best way.

Source: Terra

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