According to experts, by understanding the peculiarities of each child, it is possible to develop a safe and mutually respectful relationship.
To create children it has never been an easy task. Each generation has had to face its challenges. Each child has their own characteristics and understanding the particularities of each one helps to reflect on the best ways to keep them healthy. relationship between parents and childrencontributing positively to the development of children and adolescents.
The topic was part of the conversation circle The challenges of raising childrenheld this Sunday, 13th, during the Health and Wellness Summitpromoted by Estadao.
Connecting with your children provides a sense of security
The concept of positive education is increasingly present in the current reality of raising children. Educational conduct addresses how to educate children on the basis of mutual respect and non-violent education.
“I always say that educating through positive education requires much more work than simply shouting and commanding the child. There is a phrase that I always say: ‘Anger does not educate, because when I am angry, I end up disrespecting the child,” says Maya.
Regarding the bond between parents and pediatricians, Costantino underlines that this relationship is very beneficial for the development of children and adolescents. “Paediatricians come into contact with the child in the last trimester of pregnancy to get to know the family. From that moment we will follow this child until the end of adolescence. Therefore, the pediatrician’s interpersonal approach with this child, with this adolescent, with this family represents a very broad interaction,” he adds.
The president of the Brazilian Society of Pediatrics also stresses the importance of imposing limits on children. “It is essential to treat our children with a lot of care, a lot of affection, a lot of love, but showing limits. Showing limits also means loving, because they will not find absolute freedom. We have the obligation to demonstrate it to them”, says Costantino.
Learn to listen to your children more
Maya also champions the importance of getting to know your children on a daily basis. Even in the midst of the daily frenzy it is possible to find ways to get closer to the little ones. “I have no illusion that we will manage everything, that we will always do things right. Positive education has a legal invitation that is not about perfectionism, but about harm reduction.”
The conversation circle The challenges of raising children was mediated by Rita Lisauskas, journalist, writer and host of Programa Mãe sem Manual da Radio Eldorado.
Rita is also the author of the book Mother without manualcreated to show that there is not always right or wrong when it comes to motherhood.
The “Health and Wellbeing Summit – Is the Future of Health Here Yet?” it will take place today and tomorrow, the 14th, from 8:00 to 18:30, at the JK Iguatemi Shopping Event Space, in Sao Paulo. To register, access this link.
Source: Terra
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