“My mother and father make me” was the sincere phrase uttered by the bridesmaid during the wedding in a video that went viral on TikTok; comments by the psychoanalyst
Another video went viral on TikTok and sparked important debates. This time to interpret the scene was a child who, dressed as a bridesmaid, entered the wedding very dissatisfied and, throwing the flowers, said “my father and my mother force“. I mean, he probably didn’t want to be in that role, you know?
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Children’s dissatisfactions must also be taken into account. Sincere son 😉
♬ original sound – Andréa Ladislau Psychoanalyst
Although the girl’s spontaneous and sincere reaction has become a meme, the comments on the video did not go unnoticed. While some netizens scolded the lady’s attitude, saying that “parents should set limits”, others drew attention to the importance of listening to children – after all, she didn’t seem happy to be there, playing this role.
The situation in question reached the psychoanalyst Andr̩a Ladislau, who commented on the case through analysis of human behavior. According to her, when you consider everything that has been commented on Рand without judgment, since the whole context is not known Рit is almost impossible not to reflect on the position of the girl. And that includes two sides: setting limits and listening to choices.
Set limits X respect decisions
“Of course, every child needs limits, rules and routines. Respect, character, honesty and values ​​are essential to make them understand that not everything is allowed, and that, in many moments of their life, they will not have what you will feel frustrated and that’s okay “, emphasizes the specialist.
On the other hand, Andréa attracts attention the importance of listening to children. While not everything may be negotiable between little ones and their guardians, it does emphasize the benefits of listening, such as learning and self-knowledge, especially about feelings.
“Let the child express himself and can enjoy respectful dialogue, facilitate communication and open paths for a better understanding of what can be corrected, accepted or not, throughout their life path. Otherwise we will have a childhood marked by endless castrations, tending to generate embittered, introspective, submissive or even motivated by psychic traumas in adulthood “, concludes the psychoanalyst.
Therefore, the situation of the “sincere lady” serves as a reflection for parents, guardians and guardians: even if you can’t accept or give in, it doesn’t hurt to hear what the little ones have to say, see ?!
Source: Andréa Ladislau, psychoanalyst.
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