The longest – it is a question of joy: two personal stories

Large families are most often told by mothers. And what do those who grow up among the brothers and sisters feel? What unites them? In this material voice – Two honest stories: Difference, but similar conclusions.

He works in the physical and fitness department of a large industrial company, recently became a mother. She grew up in a large family and warmly remembers her childhood.

“I really wanted I had a brother. When my mother came back with the hospital baby, I was in the seventh paradise happily. Then a sister was born, then another brother. Since then, I have not remembered myself alone. There was always someone nearby: who to play, laugh, who would regret a broken knee or to bed.

The memories of life in our noisy and warm family always make a smile. I remember how my sister and I shared secrets, how we covered the youngest in front of my parents, how I learned to be the eldest and responsible. We even invented our games and family rules, organized performance in the kitchen, we help each other with lessons. Childhood in a large family is always a movement, laughter and support. There was no day for me to feel loneliness.

I was lucky: my mother gave me experience not only, but also internal power. Even then, I knew how to take, how to calm the baby and how to spend time on each member of the family. Sometimes I notice how much I repeat what she taught me: how I hold my daughter in her arms, how I speak to her. It is an incredible feeling to understand that you continue the family tradition of care and love. It was as if I had passed the “young mother’s course” in advance.

Now my husband and I want a second child. I grew up in an atmosphere where children were expected and loved. I would like to give the same experience to our daughter – the feeling that someone will always be nearby. And, of course, state support pleases. We have already taken advantage of maternal capitalTo reduce payment on a mortgage, this has deleted the part of the concerns of our shoulders. It’s great to know that there is a family, and there is a country that helps you grow – with children. “”

He works on a pharmacy network, recently became a mother for the fifth time. What Anna lived in childhood, Catherine realized in adulthood: she is the mother of five and is sure that each child brings even more happiness to the house.

“When my first child appeared, I was in the seventh paradise with happiness. And then – the second, third … Today, there are five: Dmitry, Stefania, Andrey, Alexei and Elizabeth. They are not only children – it is my inexhaustible source, children with children. The ancients, and I look with a smile how love and mutual assistance develop in our house.

We have small family rituals: together to cook pies on weekends, read aloud before bedtime, organize “days without gadgets”. These simple things unite us stronger than all words.

Usually the morning begins early: shower, breakfast, fresh. School, cups. Our day is planned for everyone to have time to plan. Sometimes the grandmothers take the children for the weekend, and I can afford to sleep up to nine-for mom, it’s a bit of vacation! And I also try to find time for each child separately. Simply go out for a walk, talk to the heart of the heart. It’s very close. These are precisely such moments that they remember the heat.

They often say to me, “How do you manage everything?” And I think that the point is not in time, but in the fact that we have the order in our house, where everyone knows its role. We are like a team – and it’s incredibly inspired.

I have dreamed of a big family since childhood. I wanted my children to always have friends, assistants, defenders nearby. I was lucky – my dream came true. And you know, with each child, it only becomes more happy. You become more confident, quieter and It has really become more help – the support programs develop, and it is really felt. I never regretted my choice. On the contrary, I am proud of them and sure: the more children there are, the more warmth, meaning and happiness in the house.

Anna grew up in a large family, Catherine created her herself. Their stories are convincingly shown: large families concern the richness of human connections, on love, support and power that accompany each child. Children’s laughter, mutual assistance, live communication and the warm atmosphere – it all becomes a reality when there are many children in the house.

So that there are even more stories of such, it acts in the country National “family” project. Its support measures cover all stages of family growth – from the birth of the baby at his age. The opening of the main need for newborns for newborns, the creation of infrastructure in universities for families with children, various payments, remuneration for certain housing rental costs – This is an incomplete list of support measures that parents can use. All this makes the way to large families not only welcome them, but also possible – for all those who dream of a large and strong family.

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