In general, sex during pregnancy benefits the mother-to-be and baby, leaving you more relaxed and also with more controlled blood pressure. The pair bond, which begins to transform from the successful outcome, can also become tighter and become more intimate. However, at some stages it is possible for a woman to experience a decrease in libido: how to get to foreplay, for example, in the midst of an attack of heartburn or nausea? And, importantly, some turmoil during pregnancy can limit or even prohibit sexual activity.
Baby Home selected the main recommendations on the subject:
Always listen to the obstetrician
And, of course, follow all recommendations for prenatal consultations. Only your doctor can tell whether or not you can maintain your sexual routine at each stage of your pregnancy. Cases of bleeding, placental abruption, and placenta previa, among other problems that may arise, are impediments to sex. Women in preterm labor also need to stop having sex, as orgasm can trigger contractions that anticipate delivery. On the other hand, anal sex is usually not recommended by many obstetricians, due to the risk of contamination and worsening of hemorrhoids. Talk to your doctor and follow the guidelines.
Trust me: there is no way the penis is going to hurt the baby
This is a common fear among first-time mothers and fathers, but rest assured: having sex doesn’t hurt the fetus or harm its development. During sex, the penis enters the vaginal canal, while the baby remains in the intrauterine cavity, held in a sac filled with amniotic fluid. And from the uterus cavity to the birth canal is the cervix and a mucus plug that protects your baby. You can be carefree!
Invest in your well-being
The physical and emotional changes imposed by pregnancy make every woman insecure, anxious, nervous and exhausted. Surrounding yourself with warmth, especially during sex, helps you fight off all that tension, relax, and enjoy the moment.
Choose bedding made of soft fabrics, nightgowns and lingerie that are pleasant to the touch, and opt for more subdued lighting for the environment. The pillow should fit your head well. The ideal is to use a pillow to support the belly during sex and relieve weight.
Choose a comfortable position
As the big belly grows, fitting becomes more complicated. You can’t put weight on your belly and very deep penetrations can be harmful. Therefore, choosing a mode where you have more control over penetration is best. A good example is standing on top of your partner, facing them or with your back.
An alternative is spooning or spooning position: You lie on your side, resting your belly on a pillow, and your partner also fits sideways.
Another idea is the cross position: lying on her back, the woman bends her legs over the man’s body, who fits her sideways. Her posture is great because her spine is well positioned and her belly is supported by the bed.
The second trimester can be a hot phase
The first three months are marked by discomforts such as nausea and malaise, while the last three include bloating, pain in the back and feet, difficulty sleeping and even breathing.
So probably between the 3rd and 6th month you will feel more willing and with high self-esteem, with round breasts and glowing skin and hair! Furthermore, the movement of the child produces greater security and peace of mind. It is a good stage for the couple to enjoy their pregnancy and strengthen their emotional bonds. Many women report an increase in libido at this stage.
Use and abuse of massage in foreplay
Oils, moisturizing creams and body gels – always with the approval of the doctor, to avoid the risk of allergic reactions – in massages, touches and even oral caresses relax, activate the circulation and excite at the same time.
Remember: Sex is not all about penetration
When penetration is no longer advisable or you don’t feel comfortable having sex to the end, take the opportunity to enjoy other things, such as masturbation (mutual or not), oral sex, kissing, fantasy, discovery of erogenous zones, showers for two, etc.
Dialogue between the couple is essential. There is a great variation in libido during pregnancy and every woman experiences this stage differently: some have more desire, some less. Partners also undergo changes: some feel uncomfortable, others are even more enthusiastic. Therefore, conversation is essential. Always share your feelings: complicity also helps with sexuality.
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Ben Stock is a lifestyle journalist and author at Gossipify. He writes about topics such as health, wellness, travel, food and home decor. He provides practical advice and inspiration to improve well-being, keeps readers up to date with latest lifestyle news and trends, known for his engaging writing style, in-depth analysis and unique perspectives.
