No man is an island! 11 real reasons for loneliness after 30

“I am 48 years old and I have been single for almost 20 years. Several serious crises of confidence – and no longer wanting a relationship, I want to fly free, like a bird. If it’s going to happen, it definitely will, and if it doesn’t, well, I’m already used to it.

“I am 38 years old and I support the opinion expressed above. So far, there has not been a single person for whom I would like to change the established life.

“Many years ago I stopped looking for love. After work and hobbies, there is no time for relationships. I am quite socialized, I communicate with 5-7 people every day, and that’s enough for me. I don’t go to parties and I spend my evenings at home. There was a person I was interested in, but he said no.

“I am in my early thirties. The fact that I remained without a partner, apparently, comes from my not very happy youth, I don’t know… It seems to me that I have an easy character, but some say that they are a little afraid of me. Maybe because I’m writing my thesis? Sometimes I go out somewhere to relax. I console myself with self-hypnosis that I’m too busy for an active social life, but it doesn’t help much.

“I am almost 40 years old, and I am not at all ready to devote part of my life to those who do not respect their partner and do not want to be responsible for their actions. I can be interested in someone who has a goal or needs help (especially this one!), but I don’t intend to live life for another person. I have many interests and friends that I don’t You don’t meet. There are even gay friends who you pretend to date when you’re not.”

“I’m 30, a year and a half ago I got divorced and decided not to start a relationship yet. Of course, I go on dates, but I don’t want to continue yet with anyone. I like my job, which brings in enough money, I have a lot of hobbies – and it’s good that all this does not need to be coordinated with anyone I used to spend a lot of time thinking about the future and reasoning like “what if…”, but now I want to live for today. – and that’s fine, but otherwise – I have something to do with myself.

“I’m just over 30, I’ve been alone for 6 years – and it’s wonderful! I’ve been taking care of others for so long, it’s finally time to think about me and only me.”

“I’m almost 31 and now loneliness is much easier for me than when I was 20. I’m very difficult, but I would like a long-term relationship. While the record is six months, most relationships lasted 2-3 months. Most of the time it was my fault, but I’m not worried. For me, being upset because you’re dating someone simple, and not the hero of your novel , is much worse than being upset because of loneliness.

“I am single because the father of the child left me during pregnancy for a woman he met on vacation. I think it is unlikely that anyone will need me and my daughter : since he didn’t want to live with us, why would anyone else want to?

“Dating has never been my priority. I would like to play the harp. Or have a boyfriend. But I haven’t really tried. Maybe if someone finds me a harp. Or a boyfriend … I would agree, but so far I’m doing so well.

“I am 35 years old, I was married, but I quickly divorced. The rest of the novels were ephemeral, I saw no future with any of these men. Sometimes I want to share my life with someone, but I see so many unhappy couples, so many people who miss being together… I’m starting to appreciate my freedom and my financial independence.