7 Types of Men Who Need to Say “No” Right Away!

Recognizing the gigolo is not difficult at all: this guy always talks about money. Most likely, he will invite you to some average lousy restaurant and explain it to you by saying that the day before he invested all the money somewhere. In a batch of new goods, for example. Oh yes, he has his own business, he doesn’t work for his uncle! Alphonse will be constantly distracted by phone calls and will cleverly issue orders over the phone to his subordinates. Mythical subordinates. Because he has nothing at all – no money, no business, no subordinates. All he has is a well-hung tongue. If you feel that you are being talked about diligently, put the stamp “Refuse! in his personal file.

In principle, one can deal with sissies – in the event that they are already orphans. Otherwise, alas: even if you belong to the type of women who are ready to replace a mother with a man, no one will let you do this. The sons of the mother are not born, they become – with the active participation of the mother herself. She won’t give you her blood so easily, she’ll rip your trachea out with her teeth if she feels you’re going to knock her off the pedestal. In general, you will not see the role of the main woman in his life. But you are also not advised to vegetate in secondary roles: mom will take you there and prick your brain with knitting needles. Well, she doesn’t like you! And you will never like it. You ask why nothing is said about a man? And, in fact, it is as if he did not exist: he serves as a repeater of the maternal will, and nothing more. So you will have to build a relationship not with him, but with his mother. Do you need it?

An alcoholic, a gambler, a drug addict – there are plenty of options, for every taste. It’s better not to even start, because what’s the point? If you’re not going to save him from addiction, then he’s not dear to you. Well, come on. And if you go there, then it’s a pipe: there are no healthy relationships with drug addicts. What we have with them is called codependency. First, you selflessly rescue him from the terrible consequences of addiction, try to get him back on track and return him to a normal life, and then you fall into addiction yourself. From him. From this life scenario: save – lose, save – lose. You become addicted to these emotional fluctuations as easily as to drugs, and it is then even more difficult to get out of them. Because it’s pretty good. You don’t leave a person in trouble, somehow. You throw, you throw. Not just him, but yourself. In five years, there will be nothing left of the real you.

Let’s leave the moral side of the matter – after all, he is an adult and is able to decide for himself whether or not he is ready to cheat on his wife. It’s none of your business at all. Your job isn’t to bury your head in the sand and close your eyes, but to admit that such stories don’t usually end well. Yes, it happens: people meet new love, get divorced, and live happily ever after with a new partner. The problem is that, even more often, a young woman who accepts an affair with a married man remains in the status of mistress – until she gets tired of it herself. It’s just that they don’t talk about it on every corner, because, in fact, there is nothing to brag about. Moreover, not a single married man is running around on dates in search of a new big and pure love. Plus, sharing it with his wife is somehow unsanitary.

Recognizing the attacker is very easy. Rude to servers? Zaboristo scolds the authorities? There are scoundrels all around, is he the only d’Artagnan? Run. You yourself will not notice how he will start attacking you. No, you’re no exception, and the fact that he’s rude to everyone but you doesn’t make you special at all. He lisps with you, just so as not to frighten you.

Oh, how subtly he feels, how well he understands people! Surprisingly simple. He has a lot of interesting stories in store, as he notices things the average person doesn’t care about. How does he speak! I can’t resist because we love with our ears, yeah Ears, on which he has already hung a kilo and a half of noodles – and this is only the beginning. Then he will begin to teach you to live and remake for yourself, Pygmalion is unfinished. And you’re going to have to get out of this relationship, leaving bits of skin on the barbed wire he’s going to wrap around you.

This one knows where to strike, and does not miss: in the heart, at the least protected point. He is so unhappy! Nobody understands it! But he will bravely overcome, rise from the ashes like a Phoenix bird, push back the cruel world and blah blah blah. I feel so sorry for him, poor guy. I want to warm, caress, nourish and put to sleep. Now, if at this point you don’t say “No!” you will still have to do all of this. Contain this unrecognized genius and feel guilty for having accomplished nothing in life. He will surely tell you. All because of you, yeah! He gave you his best years! And you are ungrateful! You still dare to demand something from him, from the victim. Terribly sad story, in general. Let him seek another benefactor.