Anxious people

Anxious people

Prolonged stress can affect the entire body, but especially the reproductive system. Why your periods disappear, where your libido goes and whether the advice to “let go” works when you’re having difficulty conceiving is in this guide.

This text was written as part of the prize Out Loud,” which is awarded to educators in the field of women’s health. The experts cited in this article are nominees and experts we trust.

Anxious people

From top to bottom: from brain to libido

There is an opinion that the need for procreation is our basic instinct. It’s wrong. From a biological point of view, the desire to reproduce is by no means the key task of the human body. Survival is its main goal, and the desire to leave offspring is just an additional addition. The reproductive function is carried out only when a woman has the internal reserves necessary to conceive, bear and nourish a child.

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“The hypothalamus is responsible for assessing the state of the body; it is an area of ​​our brain that can be called a link between the nervous and endocrine systems,” explains Dinara Berezina. – If there are only enough resources to survive, this affects hormone production and the reproductive system. As a result, ovulation does not occur, the woman loses the ability to conceive, the cycle is disrupted or disappears altogether.​​​​​​​

Why can’t you tolerate

You’ve probably heard stories of women who lost their periods during the war. Scientific articles were even devoted to “war amenorrhea”. But here the question arises: is it possible to compare the living conditions of a front-line nurse and a modern woman? And where is the stress line after which health begins to suffer? The body has a large reserve of strength, but it does not cope well with long-term and poorly understood experiences (the famous “grit your teeth and endure”). It can be both emotional suffering: fear for loved ones, unhealthy relationships within the family and at work, and physical, for example, lack of food or exhausting stress.​​​​​​​

In modern realities, models and athletes are the first candidates for such violations. Anxious perfectionists are also at risk.

And yet, why do some people, even in the most difficult times, not suffer from cycle disorders and become pregnant once or twice, while others face problems? Perinatal psychologist Anna Mamontova explains: “We are all different and the organization of the nervous system is different for everyone. Some women are more serene and resistant to stress, others are more anxious. Much depends on how active the limbic nervous system, the part of the brain responsible for emotions, is. It has been proven that women are more emotional than men; our brain responds more keenly to hormonal changes that occur regularly. Childhood attitudes also play a role: those who have been instilled with the confidence that one will succeed, that one can make an effort, that one can manage it, benefit from internal support more stable.

A region of the brain called the amygdala is responsible for recognizing physical and emotional stressors. This triggers the fight-flight stress response. The more active the amygdala, the lower the stress sensitivity threshold.

Where is the switch here?

In the event of prolonged stress, the body has several levers of influence on the reproductive system.​​​​​​​

  1. Disable the ovaries. The function of the ovaries is the most expensive system in terms of energy consumption (comparable only to the immune system). In the event of a lack of resources, the hypothalamus gives the order to reduce the production of hormones that trigger egg maturation and ovulation.

    “The system may be completely disrupted and menstruation will disappear. Or partially: then late periods, ovarian cysts, bleeding in the second half of the cycle, pain and dryness during sexual intercourse may appear,” explains Dinara Berezina.

  2. Reduce libido. During evolution, it appeared for one purpose: to stimulate the desire to reproduce. Unlike animals, human fertility is not tied to the seasons: we can become pregnant and give birth at any time. To prevent the reproductive instinct from disappearing completely, nature has replaced it with complex concepts: libido, love, attraction. All of them are necessary to “plant” pregnancy and implement the reproductive function. But as soon as circumstances arise in which the brain does not recommend reproduction, the libido decreases and the person no longer spends energy on sex, and at the same time the possibility of conception is eliminated.

Whose libido is low?

Answered by Olya Krumkach, women’s health specialist

There is no standard when it comes to libido – it is different for everyone. The main thing is that it suits you personally.

Here are the indicative criteria:

  • no interest in sex;
  • no erotic thoughts;
  • low level of emotional arousal during sex;
  • …and bodily too;
  • low arousal for love scenes in films and literature.

If the drop in libido was a temporary phenomenon for several weeks or months, and after a stressful situation everything has recovered, there is no need to contact a specialist. And if it lasts for a long time, regardless of your well-being and the environment, then it is better to consult a specialist.

…And other side effects

Stress can also indirectly affect women’s health.

  • Thrush appears. This is no coincidence: fungi of the genus Candida live quietly and peacefully in every body until they become too numerous. Reproduction occurs when the immune system is weakened and cannot function fully under chronic stress.
  • Prolactin increases. “Some studies show that during periods of stress, the body gives signals for greater production of prolactin, because this hormone supports the functioning of the immune system (although this mechanism is not yet fully understood), explains Olya Krumkach . “This manifests itself in the form of cycle dysfunction, milk secretions, decreased libido. In short, the body behaves as if it were breastfeeding a baby.”
  • Eating behavior changes under stress We don’t exercise much, we might drink an extra glass of wine or start smoking. And this triggers a cascade of changes that ultimately also affect women’s health: excess weight can lead to difficulty conceiving, smoking and alcohol can lead to oxidative stress and accelerated egg death potential.

Are all diseases caused by nerves?

Some would say psychosomatic, but it would be more correct to speak of the complex relationship between the mental and the physical. “Mental mood often affects fertility. Sometimes psychosomatics is linked to the background of the absence of pregnancy. It is not for nothing that a completely healthy couple has a year to try: getting pregnant not in the first cycle, but after six months or a year is the norm. But women often present an ideal image, and if this does not happen, the alarm goes off. There’s something wrong with me! – notes Anna Mamontova.

This can turn into a vicious circle: features of the brain cause increased anxiety, increased anxiety negatively affects the body, changes in the body negatively affect the psyche, etc. A good specialist will conduct a comprehensive examination, eliminate organ pathologies and will not “blindly treat the tests”.

How to manage stress correctly

Yes

  • Express your disturbing thoughts verbally (or in writing if no one is present). Don’t be afraid to cry: tears have been scientifically proven to release endorphins, which help you cope with pain, both physical and emotional.
  • Hugs, kisses, caresses. Shows of affection lower blood pressure and reduce the amount of stress hormones in the blood.
  • Physical activity helps to expend “extra” adrenaline. If you don’t have the strength or time, you can just clench your fists, feet, hips, and then relax. “Don’t accumulate anger and fear,” recommends Anna Mamontova. — You can express your aggression through the body, if you cannot do it with words. Sing, dance, box.”
  • Intellectual activities: mental calculations, learning foreign languages, etc. These activities involve the prefrontal cortex of the brain. By activating it, we inhibit the limbic cortex, generator of the stress response.
  • Observing ourselves and the world around us (carefully examining paintings, the view from a window, scanning our body) has the same effect.

These methods may not be enough, and then it is worth contacting a psychologist, preferably one who works on reproductive issues.

No

  • Stress versus sex. Forcing yourself to have sex is like eating against your will: it will be difficult, uncomfortable and ultimately only increase stress. If you don’t want to, don’t dominate yourself.

  • Food against stress. Eating a chocolate bar once during acute stress is an effective strategy. But constantly “eating” will not solve the problem and may add another: overweight and obesity themselves can lead to menstrual irregularities.

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Source: The Voice Mag

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