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Orgasm is optional: 7 facts about blowjobs you need to know

July 29, 2022
11:45 AM

There are hundreds of books that describe the technique of blowjob and dozens of trainings, the authors of which promise that for only 1990 rubles you will acquire knowledge about all the nuances of perfect oral sex. But today we want to talk about something else.

So here are seven facts about blowjobs you need to know before you get down to business.

Fact number one and most important: There is no wrong way.

In the main chamber of weights and measures of the entire history of the existence of sex, no one has taken the reference pipe, which should serve as a model and an example for all who go to bed. People have different tastes and desires. Man don’t like what you do? It’s his problem, not yours.

Let him also learn to use his mouth in accordance with his intended purpose – in order to speak about his preferences. You know, they can be fundamentally different from those that your previous partners or test subjects had, interviewed by coaches to compile the course program for 1990 rubles.

Fact Two: Not All Men Can Orgasm After Blowjob

Oral sex is not the holy grail that solves all problems. Not all guys dream of him, and even more so, not all men are capable of getting a discharge through oral sex. So if you find you’ve been doing this in vain for ages, then don’t think you’re in trouble. It’s just that someone needs to believe less in porn movies, where every blowjob ends in orgasm, and expect real sex with a girl to be like that.

Fact 3: you need a lube for a blowjob

Yes, yes, despite the fact that your mouth is full of saliva! It dries quickly, but special lubricants do not behave so badly. So let your lips rest and use your hand: it has already saved so many jaw injuries.

Fourth fact: a condom is also required

Try to remember: have you seen at least one movie where the blowjob scene starts with the girl pulling out a condom? That’s what we haven’t seen! But STDs are transmitted through oral sex, and this should always be remembered.

Fact 5: You should also have fun.

Therefore, only use the techniques that you like. The world of oral sex isn’t all about “deepthroating” (which, by the way, many women can fail for physiological reasons): you can always find techniques that both of you will enjoy.

Sixth fact: you can get tired

That’s why pillows are your best friends. They can and should be placed under your knees or under a man’s hips to take the load off the neck. And don’t be afraid to take breaks: fellatio is not a monolithic act, during which you should not be distracted from your partner’s penis in any way.

Fact 7: It’s okay to be nervous

Even after going through all the courses you found online. There’s nothing terrible to worry about – people always want to make a good impression. Use your tongue in bed, not just before sex: just ask a man what he likes, and you’ll be fine!

Source: The Voice Mag

Camila

Camila Luna is a writer at Gossipify, where she covers the latest movies and television series. With a passion for all things entertainment, Camila brings her unique perspective to her writing and offers readers an inside look at the industry. Camila is a graduate from the University of California, Los Angeles (UCLA) with a degree in English and is also a avid movie watcher.