Vini Jr. gets exposed by a model and the therapist warns: ‘Desire for control’

Vini Jr. gets exposed by a model and the therapist warns: ‘Desire for control’


Vini Jr. has a fetish exposed by a model who refused to fulfill the player’s desires; know what happened

The controversies surrounding Vini Jr. has gained new chapters after the leak of an audio in which a model reveals that she was pressured by the Real Madrid star to send intimate videos. The case has sparked debate on social media about why men resort to these types of requests, often without showing interest in a real relationship.




To understand the phenomenon, the portal listened to a relationship expert and tantric therapist Doctor Linareswhich explained the emotional and psychological aspects behind this behavior.

What’s behind the fetish?

“This fetish is linked to visual pleasure and power. When a man asks for an intimate video, he is not just looking for the woman’s body. It is a mix of curiosity, validation and desire for control”Dri says. According to the therapist it is a symbolic expression of desire and emotional need. “Man is excited not only by the body, but by the idea of ​​being chosen to see something that no one else will see.”

Why do they ask for intimate videos?

According to the expert, the explanation involves both biological and cultural factors. “Many men associate visual pleasure with the most immediate form of arousal. It’s something biological, but also cultural. There’s also a confirmation: the thought that ‘he recorded it just for me,’ which feeds the ego and generates a feeling of power, even if for a moment.”

Why do they ask, but don’t want a relationship?

According to Dri, this is because visual stimulation and emotional connection are different experiences. “They seek fantasy, not real connection. Desire is in the forbidden access, in the adrenaline of exchange. But, when desire is satisfied, distancing comes, because affection requires vulnerability, something many don’t know how to deal with.”

Watching these videos, according to the therapist, activates both sexual desire and a false sense of power. “Pleasure arises from the illusion of control and exclusivity. The screen offers a security that human contact does not provide: there is no rejection, demand or emotional surrender. It is a quick pleasure, without risks. But, deep down, it creates a cycle of loneliness and disconnection, because the pleasure is immediate, but empty.”

Source: Terra

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