In a podcast interview, the model recalled her time as a luxury escort and told of a client with odaxelagnia
In an interview with the Limited Intelligence podcast, Andressa Urach reported that she was surprised by a former client’s fetish. According to the model, the man paid BRL 7,000 for a date when she was a luxury escort. When they met, Urach discovered she had odaxelagnia, a fetish that involves experiencing sexual pleasure when one bites or is bitten by one’s partner.
“It had a knot. I won’t tell who it is so as not to expose it, but it bit my head [tão forte] It almost bled. She hurt but no [pedi para parar]”Andressa said on the podcast.
What is odaxelagnia?
Odaxelagnia is a more common sexual practice than many believe, points out psychoanalyst Dr. Andrea Ladislau. “It is characterized by biting applied during the sexual act. The pleasure subsides with the biting and the visualization of the marks left on different parts of the other’s body,” he explains.
The fetish is considered a paraphilia, a psychiatric term that encompasses sexual patterns outside the norm, that is, uncommon for the majority of the population. Andréa cites several examples of paraphilias:
- Exhibitionism (need to expose yourself during the sexual act);
- Voyeurism (desire to spy on or see a sexual practice);
- Gerontophilia (sex with the elderly);
- Lactophilia (pleasure in sex with lactating women);
- Pelucophilia (sex or masturbation with stuffed animals);
- Narratophilia (pleasure in constantly hearing obscene words during sex)
- Dendrophilia (pleasure in introducing fruit and vegetables during the sexual act), among others.
Apart from these, pedophilia is also considered a paraphilia. But, unlike the other fetishes exemplified by Andréa, it configures violence and crime.
Consent is inviolable
“It is not a problem to escape from the normality, from the standards and from the rules established during a sexual act. As long as there is consent between the partners and it is not a practice that hurts the limits of the other, through impositions, aggressive acts or even oppression and psychological violence. If consensual pleasure is obtained, without excesses and without association with destructive disorders, there is no restriction”, emphasizes Andréa.
The psychoanalyst states that there must be an open dialogue between the parties, in which one must verbalize what they like and what they don’t like about sex. “Respect for the limits of the other is essential so that, during and after the sexual act, only pleasure prevails and not pain, discomfort, lack of respect and, above all, violence, both psychological and bodily”, he points out .
Furthermore, the psychoanalyst adds that, if previously there was no consensus on how far one can go in relation to a practice, throughout the act it is necessary to verbalize and say “no” when one’s limits are invaded and extrapolated. “Allowing, silencing and not setting the necessary limits at the right time could generate future turmoil and emotional conflicts, many of which are irreversible,” he warns.
paralytic disorders
Odaxelagnia is not a disease, but other fetishes can be a disease – they are called paraphilic disorders. “They are abnormal sexual desires in the form of compulsion and which generate an extreme need to the point of causing suffering. They take the form of a disease when the exaggeration and development of these compulsions which go beyond the limits and individuality of each comes into play” , clarifies the professional.
That is, some paraphilias can lead the individual to develop compulsions classified as disorders, explains Andréa. This is what happens when, for example, the need to diversify sexual habits, to escape common sense, leads individuals to have sex with animals, corpses or even beings without mental or sexual awareness, the expert points out.
It reinforces that pedophilia, which is a crime, requires special attention. “In addition to sexual acts that cause the awakening to aggression, violence and the intensification of compulsive impulsivity linked to severe emotional suffering,” she adds.
no taboo
Andréa reminds us that sexual practice favors many benefits for the body and mind. “Sex ends up being an outlet for tensions, bringing innumerable hormonal, mental, physiological and social benefits to human beings, as well as helping not to go crazy with daily pressures, increasing self-esteem and stimulating the self-knowledge of the body and emotions,” she says.
However, each individual must take care of their excesses, adopting a conscious and safe sexual practice for both partners, freeing themselves from taboos and allowing themselves to feel desire, underlines the professional.
“To desire and feel wanted, without guilt. Exploring fantasies and understanding that sex, rational sexualization, and orgasm as mechanisms to aid one’s well-being and satisfaction, without bias, can further develop emotional maturity. However , always with great caution, responsibility, respect for the desires and limits of the partner, without exaggerating and without excesses so as not to develop unwanted sexual disorders which can close the doors to an experience of intimate and personal pleasure, healthy and necessary for everyone and for any human being,” he concludes.
Source: Terra
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