If you use one of these 9 phrases, you have “better etiquette skills” than most
Actions may speak louder than words, but words still matter a lot. People are easily offended, and if you’re in a rush, like most people, it’s easy to say the wrong thing in the wrong way.
There are nine phrases in particular that immediately show appreciation and respect. If you use any of these every day, you have better etiquette skills than most people.
1. “What I hear you say is…”
People don’t expect you to agree with everything they say. But they want to know that they have been listened to and understood.
Use this phrase to clear your mind and confirm that you’ve considered your words before responding. If they spoke vaguely the first time, you will give them a chance to focus their thoughts and contribute more meaningfully to the conversation.
2. “Maybe you’re right”
This phrase helps pave the way for disagreement, as in: “Maybe you’re right, but this time let’s try this new idea.”
It’s also useful for responding to off-topic comments and observations from hyperactive colleagues who talk too much. No one likes to be proven wrong and a simple statement allows conversations to proceed without disharmony.
3. “You were right, I was wrong”
This phrase is a gold star of conversational detachment for two reasons:
– It is impossible to say these words unless you mean them.
– They are music to people’s ears.
It’s a great tool for releasing tension, clearing the air, and gaining respect. Let go of your ego to win the bigger battle for more productive and authentic relationships.
4. “Thank you for doing this”
Old fashioned, elegant and simple. In a world where gratitude, respect and recognition are hard to find, it pays to be generous with praise. If you want to encourage good behavior, make an effort to recognize it when you see it.
5. “I’ll leave you alone”
Sometimes the hardest and most helpful thing you can do is overcome your urge to control.
If someone is chopping carrots (instead of flying a plane), offer this simple gesture of trust, especially if their first thought is that you have better technique. Say it like you mean it and do it with a smile.
6. “Can you help me?”
No one likes to be bossed around or bossed around, but most of us like to be asked for help.
Notice the difference between saying, “Take out the trash” and “Hey, I’m overwhelmed. Can I ask you to help me by taking out the trash?”
7. “Yours [cabelo/roupa] It’s so beautiful today!”
Don’t lie, but seek the good. People like compliments, even when they act like they don’t.
We are all getting older, we are all stressed, we all fear that we have forgotten something about our appearance. It’s nice to know that every now and then we did something right.
8. “It’s really interesting”
Even the melodic and prosodic flow of these words requires a slowing down, a kind of bowing to the speaker, before the conversation continues. It is an acknowledgment that something has been said, heard and considered.
9. Don’t say anything
When someone says something rude or ignorant and you can’t wait to react, remember the power of “I’m rubber and you’re glue.” Be rubber. Breath deeply. See the words as someone else’s problem and walk away.
Source: CNBC Make It
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Ben Stock is a lifestyle journalist and author at Gossipify. He writes about topics such as health, wellness, travel, food and home decor. He provides practical advice and inspiration to improve well-being, keeps readers up to date with latest lifestyle news and trends, known for his engaging writing style, in-depth analysis and unique perspectives.
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