Discover how to bring out seduction and enjoy it in a pleasant way
September 6th is Sex Day, an opportunity to discuss the benefits that this practice brings to couples. It is also an opportunity to remember the importance of consent in moments of pleasure. And the best way to do this is to talk to your partner to understand what you like and what unites you both. In addition, some natural products such as essential oils can help when the time comes.
Things that cannot be missing in moments of seduction
According to sexologist Fernanda Purificação, creating a connection is essential to be whole with yourself and on the same wavelength as your partner. “Explore creativity, eroticize the relationship, be open try new things These are actions that can make sexual intercourse interesting and much more enjoyable – remembering once again: always consenting,” she says.
Benefits of essential oils for sex life
According to Dr. Talita Pavarini, a specialist in aromatherapy and integrative practices, essential oils are an ally against low libido. “Proper use can potentially create a pleasant and relaxing sensorial environment, capable of improving the sexual experience. Scents such as ylang ylang and the rose are often associated with aphrodisiac properties. And you can also associate it with self-massage and massage with essential oils. This way the results are improved,” she says.
In this sense, the expert says that aromatherapy can play a role in sexual health by helping to reduce anxiety, improve mood, and potentially influence libido. According to her, essential oils are known for their relaxing or stimulating properties, useful for creating an environment conducive to intimacy.
“The frequency depends on the moment each person is in. It is not a miracle, you have to use it intentionally and consciously and, to improve libido, we understand how we are: reducing stress, anxiety, increasing self-esteem to have a moment alone or with pleasant company”, he teaches.
Open communication
For sexologist Fernanda Purificação it is important that everyone respects their own limits and that of the partner, since the “after” can cause discomfort for both. According to her, adding something new to the routine could be the key to improving the couple’s libido.
“Communicate, use the day as an opportunity to have an open and honest conversation about desires and expectations. Start a naughty group on WhatsApp, where it is only worth charming, seducing and flirting. Eroticize your mutual desire that not only involves sex, but also activities that strengthen the emotional bond,” she advises.
Sensory stimuli
When it comes to touch, Dr. Talita Pavarini explains that it can be a powerful means of nonverbal communication. Massage, whether done by a partner or as a self-massage, stimulates the release of oxytocin, known as the love hormone. “During massage, essential oils can be diluted in carrier oils and applied directly to the skin, combining the tactile benefits of massage with the therapeutic aromatic effects,” explains Dr. Talita Pavarini.
In the end, the important thing is to feel good and know that feeling and giving pleasure is an essential human exchange. Talking openly about sex ends up demystifying taboos, helps in self-knowledge about one’s body and also helps improve the quality of life of men and women.
By Livia Abate
Source: Terra
Ben Stock is a lifestyle journalist and author at Gossipify. He writes about topics such as health, wellness, travel, food and home decor. He provides practical advice and inspiration to improve well-being, keeps readers up to date with latest lifestyle news and trends, known for his engaging writing style, in-depth analysis and unique perspectives.
