When I kiss girls, “he” doesn’t come up; what will be the problem?

A 17-year-old boy wonders if this means he is “broky” or gay

Doctor, I’m 17, I’m a virgin and when I kiss girls the “boyfriend” doesn’t come out. It became difficult only once when the girl sat on my lap. Am I an idiot or am I gay?

Look, I think there are several issues involved in your story. First of all, you are 17 years old, you have never had sexual intercourse, maybe you are tense and nervous when you kiss girls and that’s why you don’t have an erection.

Sometimes, some men, even younger ones, need more stimulation than just kisses. For example, when the girl sat on your lap you got excited, so maybe you need more stimulation.

Another problem is that some men can only get aroused when they are intimate with girls, with their partner or partner. But in your case, it seems like these are sporadic experiences.

With what you tell us you are certainly not an asshole. You had an erection and in fact I think you are dealing with an emotional problem.

Now being gay or not is a completely different thing. If you are attracted to men, then you have a homosexual orientation, or you are gay, or you are bisexual. But you didn’t tell us any of this. Just because it doesn’t show up right now doesn’t mean you’re gay.

Source: Terra

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