Understand why people cheat, get cheated on, or become lovers
We can define cheating as the accumulation of lies within each of the partners – with themselves and between partners. And it can lead to important learning for everyone, as well as understanding the most common reasons for cheating.
The reasons for the betrayal
Low self-esteem
Sometimes, the person has a low self-esteem issue and needs to feel appreciated and validated. So you think the energy of success will help you get there. These people cheat because they have the desire to always validate theirs self lovewhich is actually illusory.
Fear of getting involved
Another reason for infidelity could also be the fear of getting involved. When the person realizes that she will get emotionally involved, she cheats, intending to stop that feeling.
Fear of being betrayed again
There is one more reason for treason: the fact that they have already been victims of betrayal. The fear of reliving that situation is so great that, to feel “relieved”, they prefer to cheat first, so that, if it happens to them, they will not be affected so much emotionally.
Betrayal is built by each person in the relationship
Cheating is not something that happens suddenly. It is generally constructed, but very thinly, being difficult to perceive.
The two people in the relationship build lies and illusions within themselves, which explode on a physical level through betrayal.
It’s those little things in the relationship, that we think about: “I’m going to let go of this situation”, “I understand one thing, but in my head it’s nonsense.”
It’s not that we should always be alert to everything that happens, but we should be aware of our feelings and the real intention behind each attitude.
For example, we often let go of some situations because we are afraid that the other will get angry when, in reality, it is a betrayal towards us, which generates an energy of betrayal and resides in the relationship.
Betrayal imparts learning to those involved
Learn for the cheater is realizing what your true choice is: is it really worth wanting to validate yourself through betrayal?
Why do you end up putting the relationship with the person you love at risk? This person has to reflect on what is really important to him, what she really wants, what she means by true love.
For those who experience betrayal, learning means acknowledging one’s share of responsibility in this situation.which is very difficult, due to the pain involved.
This person’s challenge is to be stronger than your pain and to look truthfully to see how you, too, contributed to making this happen. Think about it: why did you get involved in this situation? Why did you get involved with someone who was prone to cheating?
An important reflection for those who attract committed people is to realize their own internal contradictions.
What are these feelings that generate the contradictions and which, in physical life, lead this person to live a relationship with someone committed?
He reflects
Isn’t there a part of you that’s afraid of being in a relationship? It is very common for those dealing with someone who is already in a relationship to say that they want a relationship and are not afraid of it, but fear usually exists, they just don’t realize it.
Life doesn’t lie. So if the person is involved with someone in another relationship, there is some contradictory problem in their life. He probably has some fear of getting involved. You have to open up to discover the origin of this fear, where does it come from?
Think that for those who find themselves in this situation, when they get involved with someone who is already in another relationship, they end up having a relationship at the same time they don’t have one.
Thus it is necessary to understand that the energetic quality of contradiction, first of all, is within the person himself, he simply cannot identify it.
He declares that he wants a relationship with an uncommitted person, but he only attracts what his energy supply offers. bring the emotional wound of betrayalwhich is embedded in it.
In addition, it also carries with it the energy of the desire to commit to someone and the fear of betrayal, which generates a contradiction within one’s energy set, materializing in the physical world in the form of a relationship with someone committed.
It is important to know that it is possible, however, to change relationship patterns and overcome difficulties in love. Find out more here.
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Chickpeas Akamatsu (ceciakamatsu@gmail.com)
– Energy therapist, provides remote consultations through Personare. She is the author of the book Para que o Amor Aconteça, from the Personare Collection.
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