From copper to silver: celebrating “copper” weddings

Why are copper weddings so called? Copper is traditionally considered the softest and most ductile of metals, which symbolizes the acquired ability of partners to find compromises. But still, it’s metal, which means that the relationship should already become relatively strong. They can no longer be torn (as in the case of a “chintz” wedding, celebrated one year after the wedding) or broken (like a “wooden” wedding – five years of marriage).

At the same time, copper is not a cold metal, it is an excellent conductor of heat and electricity. A direct hint that the feelings between husband and wife are still hot. And, if we really delve into symbolism, it’s worth remembering that alchemists associated copper with the planet Venus. And Venus, as we know, patronizes love. In turn, wool personifies the warmth of the family hearth; practicality, well-established life, comfort and well-being. At the same time, woolen things tend to sting. But this property can also be considered beneficial, because the stiffness of wool improves blood circulation in the body. It’s the same in a marital union – little skirmishes, jealousy and a showdown (not too often, please!) can add a little spice and diversify family life.

The main symbol of the holiday should be a copper horseshoe. In the evening, hang this keepsake above the front door with the “horns” down. It is believed that the horseshoe absorbs all negativity, protects from troubles and prevents evil spirits and unwanted guests from entering the house. The most effective in this regard is considered to be a copper product. Although wooden and cast iron horseshoes “work” too.

In the morning, the spouses must exchange copper coins. According to the signs, this simple ritual will attract money into the house. After handing over copper coins, the husband and wife recite the mantra aloud:
“Money goes to money and stays in our wallet. Money – in the family, poverty – out of the house. So that our wealth is multiplied and we are gone, ”after which each of them puts a coin in his wallet.
After that, the “young people” should exchange gifts. A good tone on the part of the husband is to present a copper ornament or accessory to his wife. A woman should please her beloved with a woolen scarf, sweater, socks or mittens. According to popular belief, handmade things have the most powerful energy. But if neither you nor your spouse are craftsmen and seamstresses, try to choose a gift from the store with special love. Put all the power of your emotions in a memory!

The exchange of rings is another important ritual on this day. At least symbolically put “new” copper wedding rings on each other’s fingers. And you can complete the festive morning with a joint tea party – of course, near the copper samovar!

Have you forgotten how many years you’ve been together? The number seven has held sacred significance since ancient times. Therefore, make sure that the seven is beaten in some way during your vacation. You can put seven bouquets on the table, invite the seven most important guests (of course, the whole company can and should be bigger), organize the seven most outstanding competitions, etc.
It doesn’t matter where you decide to celebrate a copper wedding – at home, in a restaurant or in nature. But it is worth adding copper elements (dishes, candlesticks) and “woolen” details (scarves or gloves – gifts for guests) to the decor.

You may want to seriously approach the organization of the holiday, then it will be interesting to organize a copper wedding in the style of ancient Greece or oriental tales. In ancient and eastern culture, copper is very common, so you will definitely need luxurious antique dishes, vases and amphorae. Berber-style wool carpets will also be very suitable!
Another option – to arrange a party room in a warm British style. No more Scottish plaid inside, warm blankets for guests – and vivid prints are guaranteed! (“The groom”, who appeared in a kilt, will also become an unforgettable part of the party. Jokes aside).

If you do not have the opportunity to create such a design, it is enough to limit yourself to “coppery” shades in the decor – gold, red and pink tones.
What should be a copper wedding cake? It will be great if confectioners to order create it in the form of a jar or bag with copper coins. But even the most ordinary cake can become special on this day if it’s covered in copper icing and decorated with seven lit candles.
What to wear to the spouses of a copper wedding? All that you want! Special rules apply only to accessories: for example, a man must wear a belt with a copper buckle and a woman must wear at least one piece of jewelry made of the appropriate material. A light woolen scarf or a knitted pouch will also come in handy.

On the 7th wedding anniversary, it is customary, first of all, to give dishes and kitchen utensils. Decorative copper tumblers, fruit bowls, vases and platters fit the holiday theme perfectly and are sure to come in handy for house anniversaries. This also includes copper ashtrays, candelabra and figurines.

It is worth following another symbol of marriage and choosing some kind of woolen item. If the “bride” likes to knit, give her a box or a set for this type of needlework. A common gift for both spouses is a luxurious woolen blanket or rug.
And remember: the gift doesn’t have to be symbolic. The main thing is that it is useful to those whom you want to please. Therefore, you can give anything you want – at your discretion or in accordance with the recipients’ wish list). But at least in the packaging, try to beat the holiday theme – for example, wrap a gift in a fine woolen knit.

In conclusion, we offer toasts for a copper wedding. Perhaps one of our options will be useful to you.