I don’t like: how to understand that your feelings are not reciprocated?

I don’t like: how to understand that your feelings are not reciprocated?

It happens that a person declares love for a partner, but in reality this is not so. In words, it goes something like this: “I don’t want anything bad to happen to him, but I don’t feel for him what I should.” Or: “After all, we have common children.” Or: “We can just be friends.” Specialists, seeing one-sided feelings in a couple, usually hold separate sessions with both partners to assess the severity of the problem. How to understand that the feelings are not reciprocated and that it is time for you to do something?

1. Apathy

People who love each other love going somewhere together. They like to please their partner and offer new travel and leisure options. What if it was like that before, but now it’s not, maybe you don’t like his company anymore?

2.Distance

Partners in love want to get closer: they rush from work, they are happy to go on vacation, and the usual joint dinner brings joy. If you want to increase the distance, it’s a bad sign.

3. Physical proximity

As a general rule, good partners have more sex. They like not only to receive, but also to please. They are interested in what turns the other on and how they can enhance already pleasurable intimate experiences. If you forgot when you had sex, you should ask yourself, will it happen again?

4. Focus

Partners in love think of each other, they can bring a gift for no reason, they will always console each other if the other is bad. Is it enough for your relationship?

5. Value

Hopefully in a relationship, both are satisfied that they were able to find such a suitable partner. The two like each other and consider him a great love. And if you’re just another fish in the ocean to him (or vice versa), all is not so good.

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6. Respect

An absolute given in a good relationship. They respect not only each other, but also choice, they know how to listen, talk and find a compromise, they work well in a team. If the couple does not come out of loud arguments over trifles, there may be trouble.

Problems in one or more areas do not necessarily mean that everything is bad for you, but it is worth taking a closer look and starting to correct the situation before it gets worse.

Source: The Voice Mag

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