Woman behind the wheel: errors we make on the road, and advice on how to repair everything

Woman behind the wheel: errors we make on the road, and advice on how to repair everything

When you are alone, heat +37, the car smokes and a few tens of kilometers in the city – everything you know ceases to be important. Disappears. There remains a panic. Nearby is nobody. Imagine now that someone has just arrived and decided everything.

It is unlikely that it is an exaggeration to say that we, women, keep everything under control. Here, you drive, you clearly follow the route, reflections on children, deadlines and, of course, the list of races for today’s dinner. It seems that everything is captured, but here … the car begins to smoke. Or the brakes suddenly do not react. And there is no one nearby. Here, everyone is confused.

Voice spoke with the commissioner of the social project “Help on the Roads” of “insurance” Albina Abramova, who leaves every day for those who face unforeseen events on the road and provide first aid, help to write documents for an accident, to call the tow truck, to advise and much more. Our heroine told the stories of women pilots, of which she has become the witness, and shared how to face a particular problem not only technically, but also unimporte.

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Woman behind the wheel: errors we make on the road, and advice on how to repair everything

Deeply at night, I went up inside the Ring Road in Moscow. Suddenly, I see – a car rushes for me on the way in the opposite direction. In a fraction of a second, we both turned to the side of the road. There was a pregnant woman while driving. Eighth month. It turned out that someone cut it on a slippery road, and the car turned into an opposite direction.

We called the traffic police, blocked the road, unfolded his car and everything ended safely. But the two hugged their hands and my heart fell frantically for half an hour.

What to do in such a situation:

  • As soon as possible, the car is stopped, do not try to return to the stream, even if you and the car are intact. Light the accident and wait for help.
  • Call someone. Even the voice of a loved one will give the feeling that you are not alone.
  • Take out your actions aloud. This helps the brain to panic to control.
  • If you can, breathe on the square: 4 seconds Inspire – 4 Delay – 4 expires – 4 breaks. It is a stabilization technique.

And remember: panic is not an error or a sign of weakness. It is a natural reaction to a non -standard situation. Do not blame yourself: you have the right to be afraid, because you are only a person. The main thing is what to do afterwards.

Pilaf and three cars

Summer day, TTK. The woman decided to have lunch. Just behind the steering wheel. A plate, Pilaf – Everything is at home. In the end, of course, she could not hold the wheel and “assembled” three cars. Everyone is alive, but the damage is seriously caused. When I arrived, she always tried to remove the rice from the front panel …

What to do in such a situation:

  • Food driving like a phone: the brain is busy, reactions slow down. If you want to eat, stop. In the literal sense: Find the parking lot, click on the brake, turn the ignition key.
  • If you are hungry, but stop and there is no way to eat – turn on the smell. In the car, for such a case, it would be good to keep a chewing gum with mint, citrus candies, a cinnamon stick or a capsule with a favorite aroma. This helps to deceive the brain and change with food reflections.
  • Having become the culprit of the accident, you will probably be faced with the assault of the victims. But it is important to remember: the opposite person knows nothing about you, and even his anger does not always concern you. It is best not to respond to provocations, to go next, to cause help and not to enter a conflict. Of course, it would be good to apologize for what happened, but only if you see that these words will be perceived correctly and will not cause a new wave of aggression.
  • At this moment, you become the most vulnerable, depressed. One of the best tips is to ask you questions: “What can I do now?” And “What do I need to feel security?” Sometimes the answer is simple: call her husband, mother or girlfriend, turn on the music, take some breaths. Or just say: “I’m already doing it.”

Rain, tears and Europrotokol

City center. It’s raining, there is incredible heat. I will see an accident involving a taxi driver and a girl. She already has a clear hysteria. I go up and clarify what happened: it turned out that there is no disagreement between the participants in the accident, but the two do not know how and cannot compile Europrotocol correctly (this is a simplified system to design accidents without calling the police. – Ed.). Then, I invited them to our large yellow pick-up, and together, we all invented, dried up a little and expired, after which we separated peacefully.

What to do in such a situation:

  • If there are no victims and the damage is insignificant, you can organize the Europrotokol. To do this, repair the following: take a photo of an accident, cars themselves, figures, traffic lights and traffic signs.

  • Don’t be afraid to ask for help. Call in support, to a loved one – Tell me what happened and ask to clarify each step. Don’t know – normal.

  • If you are stressful, try the next technique to calm: name loud what’s going on. For example: “I had an accident, no one was injured, but I don’t know what to do.” This is the earth.

  • Imagine that your girlfriend had an accident and called you. What would you say now? Tell this.

Golf against Kamaz

Summer. I’m going to see how the white “golf” will exceed Kamaz, it hurts, but … continue to go further. At the same time, a quarter of the car is simply demolished. Then I start to point out and show that I have to go to the side of the road. We stopped, I got out of the car and I see: the girl is sitting at the wheel of the golf course. She said that she was traveling at an authorized speed, listening to the music strongly and imagined that she cut Gelendvagen. I noticed and in these dreams went beyond. The kamaz driving on the side fell: of course, huge, did not notice anything and continued, but the golf was seriously injured. Nevertheless, me, after examining the car, I tried to calm the car alloys and, together, we started to wait for the traffic police.

What to do in such a situation:

  • Stop. Look around. Do not claim that nothing happened.

  • Even if it seems that everything is fine, – look again. Often, the shock interferes with the evaluation of the situation.

  • In the future, think about the reason why you have been noticed and that you have lost a concentration on the road. Fatigue? Overwork? It is a signal: you must recover.

  • If behind the wheel, you notice that thoughts are “floating”, make a brief stop. Get out of the car. To withdraw. Find it. Put your legs on the ground, feel support. Ask yourself, “I’m in the body now? Or am I in my head?” – And I come back to reality.

If the urgency on the road

  • Smoke? Light the emergency equipment, go to the side of the road, the engine jam. Do not suddenly open the hood – this can strengthen the fire.

  • Have the brakes disappeared? Go to low speed, brake the engine. Do not turn off at a complete stop.

  • Night, no connection? Don’t panic. Sit in the car, turn on the accident. Wait. Even in the desert – you are not alone. Help will find you.

How often do women have an accident?

Maybe my answer will surprise you, but it rarely happens. Most accidents in my practice go to the participation of men. This is confirmed by independent studies data, for example, HSE: Men on the roads are three times more violations. And women are more careful, attentive.

But if something similar happens, it is often that they are without support. The husband does not answer, the children in the lessons, at home far.

For such cases, insurance is necessary. CTP-CTP-VOISH minimum, at least a certain legal protection. CASCO – Your financial protection. And, of course, the people who will come. Support. They will speak. Help. Like our “Help on roads” project of “T insurance” – we are freely going to motorists who have been in different emergency situations on the road. And we try to be a support for them.

Finally: Remember – You are not alone. You are not a bad driver. You had force majeure. Bad day. But you will certainly do it. First with trembling hands, but every minute, you will be more confident. And at the end, you are waiting for gratitude for surviving him.

And we are nearby. Always.

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